**Daily Chat Wet Wednesday - come in from the rain 15th July 2009*

redsquirrel80

Can someone pass me the DFW frying pan? Soooo tired out with ex - one minute according to him I am the most amazing thing in the world and the next I am b*tch from hell.. maybe I should give up trying to be civil and actually be the latter. Sick of jumping every time my phone goes not knowing what sort of over the top rant of one kind or the other I'm going to get

Lucifa73

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

So sorry to hear that Luc, I hope he has a lovely weekend of with the two of you though

Part of the reason he's working so hard is because he's got 2 weeks off from Monday (hopefully!) so we'll have plenty of time with him.:j

I just miss him. I haven't clapped eyes on him since Sunday night and I could use one of his big squashy cuddles:o

Lucifa73

redsquirrel80 wrote: »

Can someone pass me the DFW frying pan? Soooo tired out with ex - one minute according to him I am the most amazing thing in the world and the next I am b*tch from hell.. maybe I should give up trying to be civil and actually be the latter. Sick of jumping every time my phone goes not knowing what sort of over the top rant of one kind or the other I'm going to get

If its his number don't answer. You've given him the facts. you've tried to be civil. Time to be hard nosed.

(Land_of)_Maz

redsquirrel80 wrote: »

Can someone pass me the DFW frying pan? Soooo tired out with ex - one minute according to him I am the most amazing thing in the world and the next I am b*tch from hell.. maybe I should give up trying to be civil and actually be the latter. Sick of jumping every time my phone goes not knowing what sort of over the top rant of one kind or the other I'm going to get

Release your inner b*tch/hard faced cow/ice queen - delete as applicable!

Tell him everytime he has a rant all he is doing is verifying for you that you've made the right decision... tell him the only thing that might change your mind is if he left you well alone... and don't give him a timescale!

(is it obvious that these are sentences i've uttered myself this last week or so!!)

Snaggles

Afternoon, well done on the job Toria.

I've got pmt need to go for a run but no energy and would rather buy chinese take-away and chocolate, drink too much wine and hide in my bedroom crying all evening. I hate feeling like this. It's only 2 or 3 days a month, but it's bl00dy miserable.

Lucifa73

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

Release your inner b*tch/hard faced cow/ice queen - delete as applicable!

Tell him everytime he has a rant all he is doing is verifying for you that you've made the right decision... tell him the only thing that might change your mind is if he left you well alone... and don't give him a timescale!

(is it obvious that these are sentences i've uttered myself this last week or so!!)

Is Big Wotsit looking for another chance?

Snaggles.

redsquirrel80

Lucifa73 wrote: »

If its his number don't answer. You've given him the facts. you've tried to be civil. Time to be hard nosed.

It's mostly texts I'm afraid, and I can't tell who they're from until I open them :mad:

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

Release your inner b*tch/hard faced cow/ice queen - delete as applicable!

Tell him everytime he has a rant all he is doing is verifying for you that you've made the right decision... tell him the only thing that might change your mind is if he left you well alone... and don't give him a timescale!

(is it obvious that these are sentences i've uttered myself this last week or so!!)

Hmm, I said exactly that yesterday and he agreed to leave me alone, he even said himself he knew he was making it worse and making me less likely to change my mind.. can't seem to help himself though :rolleyes:

(Land_of)_Maz

Lucifa73 wrote: »

Is Big Wotsit looking for another chance?

Snaggles.

he is...

He knows i'm going, and seems calm about it... for the most part but every now and then he has a wee rant or a wee plead.....

i'm trying not to give him false hope... there really isn't any likelihood of a reconcilation from my point of view... but he thinks maybe when we've had time apart etc etc, blah blah blah....

Bunnyinthelights

Snags ((((hugs))))

Can I join you? Feel EXACTLY the same.

redsquirrel80

:grouphug: Snags and Bun. Snags, how about a takeaway after you've had a run, exercise and fresh air usually helps if you can drag yourself out there?