Westiedogs 1st diary

Fire_Fox

westiedog wrote: »

Me and OH just been going through finances etc - no joint debt apart from mortgage which is up to date - just caught a glimpse of his bank statement and on there was a subscription for a well known dating website!!!

Im gutted, havent said anything to him yet so what to I do ? xxx

Any replies appreciated xxx

(((hugs)))

Mr. Fire Fox has an account with a inappropriate website and I pretend I don't know: I think because this probably isn't a forever relationship. Do you definitely want this to be long term? Could it be a forgotten DD from before you? Would you believe him if he said he was paying on behalf of a friend or relative? Can you check the site to see if he is active?

ClootiesMum

It might be that Mr Westie is not au fait with t'internet & has been caught by a 'click on me' pop-up?

Mr CM just switches PC off when things appear that he doesn't recognise, but Mr Westie might have been trying to be helpful & tried to fix things for you?

CM

westiedog

Been with Mr Westie for 9 years. Checked his profile on dating site this morning and he is listed as single !!! :mad:

MessyMare

Oh Westie, that's got to be a blow, my ex used to do that to me all the time. Just wanted to send you lots of *hug*

westiedog

:money:Thanks for the hug CP :grouphug:

Just going to try an keep OH at the back of my mind for the minute.

Bank balance today :

+237.07 opening balance
+1552.57 pay
- 42.49 house insurance
-149.81 mobile - result of holiday in Egypt - but thats an improvement because it was nearly £400 last year in Egypt :eek:
-42.89
-237.07 savings transferred to works credit union :T
balance +1317.52

Lemon_Tree

sorry to hear that you've found he's listing himself as single that is a blow, i guess only you will know how you want to face this - head on or subtly (i'm not good at subtle unfortunately).
Looks like you're not doing too bad at the moment even though it's only payday. I love paydays and the time i can spend playing with the numbers in my account, and budget. And yes i am very very sad lol.

MessyMare

Lemon_Tree wrote: »

I love paydays and the time i can spend playing with the numbers in my account, and budget. And yes i am very very sad lol.

Don't say that, that's when I spent all day Friday doing

westiedog

Is it just me or does anyone else feel the same way? I have suddenly at the age of 42 become obsessed with money/numbers and money saving expert. :money:

:beer: Im off out tonight for a couple of drinks and will try not to keep thinking I need to get to MSE xx:rotfl:

Lemon_Tree

not it's not just you, i'm totally obsessed about money/numbers/spreadsheets etc. and now i wish i had a pay day every week, it's not fair that i only get one a month!

westiedog

That made me laugh lemon tree - how fantastic would it be to get your monthly pay once a week? That debt would go down pretty quick.

You owed a little less than I do when you started your journey - well done on reducing it - I would love to think I could get down to owing £20,000 + in three years time. :rolleyes: