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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    edited 1 July 2009 at 10:59PM
    Snags, Do Nothing.

    Please, just leave him be if he likes you he will stay in touch and make plans, play hard to get, protect yourself.

    sorry if that sounds like game playing - cos well it is! but well its my opinon. I just want you to be safe, keep your heart safe. xxxx

    Thanks hun, I think that's pretty much how I feel - not that I want to play games exactly, but I don't want to do all the chasing. If we see each other again, I want to feel it's because he genuinely wants to, not because he feels obliged to because he'd look like a sh*t, dropping me after he spent the night with me.
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Night Twitty :wave:
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • Doomcow
    Doomcow Posts: 1,729 Forumite
    nn twit.

    always space in my hareem for maz n snags :)

    stop worrying! lmao! hell you stress too much (like me atm!)
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  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,555 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    It really does. We were talking about running off-road (which he does a lot), and I said I would have to try it sometime - he said 'You'll have to bring your kit next time you are over this way and I'll take you'.

    Which could be read as 'Come over and we'll go running together', or it could be read as 'Next time you're in the neighbourhood...' (my sister lives not far from him, so it's not necessarily an invite to go and see him).

    So confused.

    oh gawd - does it never get any easier? Hope he gets in touch soon and makes things clearer for you.

    I'm tired but can't sleep cos I'm too hot, off to doze on the sofa for a bit, night all. x
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Night Skinty :) thanks x
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    Thanks hun, I think that's pretty much how I feel - not that I want to play games exactly, but I don't want to do all the chasing. If we see each other again, I want to feel it's because he genuinely wants to, not because he feels obliged to because he'd look like a sh*t, dropping me after he spent the night with me.

    Do you see him with your kids?

    Does he know your childcare "schedule"?
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  • Doomcow
    Doomcow Posts: 1,729 Forumite
    snags - hwo about you say "well im going for a drink friday night here if you fancy it?" and then he'll either say yeah and jump at it, or be really awkward and then you know where you stand?
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    oh gawd - does it never get any easier? Hope he gets in touch soon and makes things clearer for you.

    I'm tired but can't sleep cos I'm too hot, off to doze on the sofa for a bit, night all. x

    Open one window at the front and one at the back and try to get a through draught. The more you open the less strong (but more spread-out) that draught will be.
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  • loupee
    loupee Posts: 91 Forumite
    Been really enjoying keeping up with thread all day :)

    Maz - I know things will work out for you, just hope its not any more long and drawn out than it has been.

    Need to go be bed BF has selection for the army 2m :eek: so its up at half 5!
    He should be fine, but obv anything can happen, he's just itching to get a start date. I am too (not in a bad way, if you know what i mean!)

    Night All

    Lou x
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  • Doomcow
    Doomcow Posts: 1,729 Forumite
    army, ooh er!

    hallo loupee :)
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