**Pinch, Punch 1st of the Month (Wednesday) DAILY CHAT**

Doomcow

evening all, how we doin tonight!??!?!

whatatwit

Evening doomy & gang.

There was a huge storm here last night.....it looked like monsoon weather :eek:

Hope it doesn't happen tonight.

whatatwit

Maz, I am full of admiration.
Hope you do get the house....trying to stay put would be awful

Snaggles

Ohhhh for goodness sake!!! :mad:

Two days later and still none the wiser.

He is being perfectly nice, he hasn't said anything to imply he doesn't want to see me again....but something doesn't feel quite right. He's sent a few texts, and he just chatted to me briefly on Facebook, but he's not what you would call flirty, he hasn't rung me, he hasn't mentioned seeing me again....for goodness sake, surely men know that women need a TINY bit of reassurance about these things???

Perhaps I should just ask him, but if he's thinking everything is okay, then I might look a bit needy.

GAHHHHH!!

skint_spice

Snags can't you say something along the lines of "I've not got the kids on x do you fancy going out for a drink/walk etc"

scaredy_cat

Snaggles wrote: »

Ohhhh for goodness sake!!! :mad:

Two days later and still none the wiser.

He is being perfectly nice, he hasn't said anything to imply he doesn't want to see me again....but something doesn't feel quite right. He's sent a few texts, and he just chatted to me briefly on Facebook, but he's not what you would call flirty, he hasn't rung me, he hasn't mentioned seeing me again....for goodness sake, surely men know that women need a TINY bit of reassurance about these things???

Perhaps I should just ask him, but if he's thinking everything is okay, then I might look a bit needy.

GAHHHHH!!

snags, i soo understand what you're going though *hug*... it's the 'do i call... don't i call... should i wait til tmorrow? or wait for him to call?

it does your head in, doesn't it!!:mad:

Buffythedebtslayer

Snaggles wrote: »

Ohhhh for goodness sake!!! :mad:

Two days later and still none the wiser.

He is being perfectly nice, he hasn't said anything to imply he doesn't want to see me again....but something doesn't feel quite right. He's sent a few texts, and he just chatted to me briefly on Facebook, but he's not what you would call flirty, he hasn't rung me, he hasn't mentioned seeing me again....for goodness sake, surely men know that women need a TINY bit of reassurance about these things???

Perhaps I should just ask him, but if he's thinking everything is okay, then I might look a bit needy.

GAHHHHH!!

Snags, Do Nothing.

Please, just leave him be if he likes you he will stay in touch and make plans, play hard to get, protect yourself.

sorry if that sounds like game playing - cos well it is! but well its my opinon. I just want you to be safe, keep your heart safe. xxxx

Snaggles

skint_spice wrote: »

Snags can't you say something along the lines of "I've not got the kids on x do you fancy going out for a drink/walk etc"

If I'm completely honest, I'm too scared to. I know that's pathetic and a woman should be able to ask a man out, but I just can't. And it's 2 weeks till I don't have the kids again! :rotfl:

scaredy_cat wrote: »

snags, i soo understand what you're going though *hug*... it's the 'do i call... don't i call... should i wait til tmorrow? or wait for him to call?

it does your head in, doesn't it!!:mad:

It really does. We were talking about running off-road (which he does a lot), and I said I would have to try it sometime - he said 'You'll have to bring your kit next time you are over this way and I'll take you'.

Which could be read as 'Come over and we'll go running together', or it could be read as 'Next time you're in the neighbourhood...' (my sister lives not far from him, so it's not necessarily an invite to go and see him).

So confused.

whatatwit

Night all.
Speak tomorrow.

sallyx

Yep what Buffy said...wise words!