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I do agree with the above posts, if you are withholding financially to get the 'better deal' I don't think the relationship is ever going to be harmonious. Splitting bills is one thing, but what if you have a kid, are you going to split that neatly down the middle too?!Debt January 1st 2018 £96,999.81Met NIM 23/06/2008
Debt September 20th 2022 £2991.68- 96.92% paid off0 -
If you are a lodger to have no interest in the house you should pay £300 plus your share of the food. If you want to be really fair, you buy out half the house, you use the £70k to match his equity and pay half the mortgage.
I'm really pleased that you are going into this with your eyes open and it is how you resolve discussions such as this which will give you the answers you need about whether you want to spend the rest of your lives together. Just make sure whatever you agree you take legal advice on.0
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