Lonely and heartbroken

Neff_2

Nosey parkers lol

toniq

Hi Neff xxx

I don't know where u r in the uk, but maybe when u drop daughter at school try to strike up a conversation with another mum, if u make yourself approachable u will soon make friends, i can hear through you post u r hurting really bad, im so sorry, maybe cutting him right out would be the best way to go.
Hang in there, fill your me time when daughter is in bed with some treats, ie: doing nails, reading a new magazine, cheeky bar of choc whilst u watch a dvd.

Much luck, i really hope the hurt gets better soon, and if u did move back to ur own area, ur daughter would probably cope alot better than u think xxx

xxxxxxxxxxxx

The_Banker_5

So you were good enough to move away from your friends and family to be with him and now he decides he has had enough of playing happy families and moves back in with mummy.:rolleyes:

I aint got any words for him, well I have but I'm not going to say them on here as I will probably get banned.

Heres a hug for you anyway. ((((((((Neff))))))))

hot.chick

would your daughter like to join a club? Some parents wait for the hour or so whiles their children swim or dance or what ever, a great chance to meet new people.

Do you work? A lot of my friend are made through work.

Weekend activities will also help - have a plan so you don't feel trapped.

Good luck

x

VfM4meplse

It is bad enough when you are a teenager, I can't imagine how unsettling it must have been to be in an unstable relationship when you are older. Some men just never grow up and belong with their mummies full-time.

xmaslolly76

Hiya im sorry to hear about your situation you must feel so alone right now. Im probably going to state the obviouse but have you tried joining some groups or offered to help out at the school. Could you get yourself a little part time job just a few hrs a week whilst your daughter is at school you will meet more people and make friends quicker. Please dont sit there drinking yourself into oblivion it wont do you or your daughter any good i know ive been there with depression and can only now im over it see the damage i was causing.

Other posters are right as well kids will adjust very easily especially if you are moving back to somewhere she is used to and already has friends there so don't just rule that option out.

I hope everything gets better for you ((((hugs)))) x

Neff_2

Nosey mates

SailorSam

Is there not a council gym near you, they are often a lot cheaper, i think in ours it's a free induction so others must be similar.
Only other thing i can think of, use the internet more for chatting,
Not just date sites, but maybe here or look for something with women in a similar position who just want to have a natter.

xmaslolly76

Well i'm glad your daughter finally has the support she needs it does sound like you have found her a wonderfull school. Forget £70 go to ladies sessions at the local swimming pool find a keep fit class thats local will be much cheaper than that. you could always try and find some friends locally on a web site do you have any interests or hobbies. My other half is moving from rugby to be with me but has already joined a bike site and has loads of new contacts who live close by to me so he can make new friends.

Intergalactic_Floozie

Just a thought....when I was an Avon rep, it used to bring me into contact with loads of people. Some of them were quite lonely and I think used to order from me, just so they could have a chat. Would you fancy giving something like that a go? Could earn some extra money too.

Tia_Maria06

Hi neff, I'm in a slighty similiar situation, new town, no friends here, getting v lonely etc etc... I joined the gym the council gym has a scheme on £28 with the induction for a month.. but there is Fit4Life thingy going on at the minute... Try not to drink your weekend away, you'll feel more depressed/guilty, maybe take a walk to the local pub and have only a couple of drinks, its amazing how many people will talk to you! (get there late when everyone is more relaxed lol).

This wont last forever, get positive!!! big hugs xx