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Can I refuse CSA off my ex?
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He sounds like a big bad bully to me! I would seek some kind of advice and try and change your contact details. If you feel that your kids could be in danger then do whatever is needed to sort this out ASAP.
You've had a rough time hun and am thinking about you.
Hugs and good luck
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Thanks for your replies everyone. Sorry I havn't been replying all weekend, I havn't been anywhere near a comp.2008 Comping ChallengeWon so far - £3010 Needed - £230Debt free since Oct 20040
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If I were you I would try and find a way that he wasnt able to contact you and if you dont need the money put it into an account for the children, either for them to do with as they wish or to keep towards something for the future such as driving lessons when they reach of age or an account they can only access at 18 or 21.
I suggest you see what someone at your local CAB suggests you do, but you really dont need him contacting you as I guess it will impact on your children in the end and it will end up making them resent their father even more.Weight Loss - 102lb0 -
black-saturn wrote:As a result of this I get abusive emails from him
999 or something along those lines, pop into you local Police Station is probably better with email printouts, then get a restraining order.
He sounds a berk. :mad:0 -
why don't you just set up a DD paying the money back to him each week / month.0
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As you already have a restraining order in place against an ex boyfriend, could you apply for another one against the father of your children? HTH0
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I assumed that they were the same person?"This site is addictive!"
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Yes it is the same person.elona wrote:I assumed that they were the same person?2008 Comping ChallengeWon so far - £3010 Needed - £230Debt free since Oct 20040 -
Would he not be in breach of his restraining order if he is contacting you via email? I would suggest taking copies of the emails down to your local police station. If he has breached the order he will be committing a criminal offence and will face up to five years inside."I've fallen down a hole" - said in best Monty Python voice-over.0
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Also, why not just change your email address? Is this the only way he is in contact with you?"I've fallen down a hole" - said in best Monty Python voice-over.0
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