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Fri 12th June "Funky Friday" Daily Chat

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  • daphne_descends
    daphne_descends Posts: 2,517 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Morning everyone :) Elliot has been up since 5.45 :eek: but lucky for me OH got up and I was blissfully unaware till half 6...

    Off to the hairdressers this morning :j then washing and packing... not so :j
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Ah Lou,
    How utterly horrible for you in all aspects hunny.

    I wish I could think of something that would make things all better but I really am at a loss.

    I would give you a big hug and sit down with you and let you vent-would that help?

    xxxxx
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • daphne_descends
    daphne_descends Posts: 2,517 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Sorry for the x-post there L and I won't quote but am so sorry :( :grouphug:
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Hugs Lou, I can't begin to imagine how you are feeling. Just know that we are all here for you and you can offload whenever you want. What is your brothers brain surgery for and have they discussed the outcome with him/you?
    Sex drive well thats because you are stressed hun, it will come back
    Work, well you are good at your job its pants you have to apply for it but I guess its them taking the easy way out by not having to select someone for redundancy but getting people to justify why they should be kept! Have you discussed with your boss about your brother and how this could be affecting your concentration at the moment? It might be worth doing hun
    xx
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Sammy,
    I have my p60 here. What other info did you need?
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    thanks

    I dont want to just come on here and seem like I am attention seeking, I honestly just needed to get it out of my head IYSWIM

    I will be fine
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    Oh Lou, I'm really sorry to hear all that, I hope things work out for you, and best wishes for your brother.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Sammy,
    I have my p60 here. What other info did you need?

    just your p60 xx:D
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Lou, no one would ever think you are attention seeking. It helps that we know what you are going through, whether we can help or not, at least we can send virtual hugs and love to you.

    From what I know of you you are good at your job, please keep that in mind when being reinterviewed. I hope your brother is okay and as for the lack of sex drive, it is hardly surprising. A cuddle is what you need at the minute..:grouphug:
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Big hugs Lou. Hope things work out for you. The folks on here are fab and supportive at all times - I owe them big for this week myself:rolleyes:

    In other news...

    Nathan was playing in his cot while I put away his clean clothes and stuff and he has drifted off to sleep all by himself:T:j - he usually requires a bit of a cuddle before his morning nap to 'let go' so this is progress indeed:j

    Read back last night - Can't make Leeds or Weybiza so can we do a scottish meet pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaase? (insert begging smiley)
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


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