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Departure and NRP's partner

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  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    Zara33 wrote: »
    Oh well i guess we will never see eye to eye then.

    Well I would rather look into your deep gorgeous eyes than the lady who was threatening to pour acid in hers :o, whats wrong with optrex nowadays? :rotfl:
  • Blonde_Bint
    Blonde_Bint Posts: 1,262 Forumite
    DUTR wrote: »
    Trouble is on here, after a time of visiting, you will soon learn that if you are a bloke trying to play fair, you wont get much support.
    Harsh reality is that it is very little to do with supporting the children, it is more about one speices being spiteful and vindictive, sorry to say this there will be many on here who will not be happy until your life is made hell and you so wished you had not found love elsewhere.
    Whilst offering support to those that wish to practice milking the ex male partnerand making their life hell. :(


    I'm hearing that statement loud and clear. you give a very good description of our PWC lol she is the living embodiment of your 'harsh ... right through to ... and vindictive' lol I wouldnt mind but I dont think she is enjoying her spite to the max. I just keep my mouth shut and smile, she who laughs last laughs loudest. wonder what she'll do when she cant tell lies about us anymore lol, it isnt just this womans hobby over the years shes made it her vocation:D

    you know the face that rolls along this on:rotfl:what does ROTFL mean please?
  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    DUTR wrote: »
    Well I would rather look into your deep gorgeous eyes than the lady who was threatening to pour acid in hers :o, whats wrong with optrex nowadays? :rotfl:
    :rotfl:Has that line ever worked for you before.
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  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    ROTFL = rolling on the floor laughing
    Hit the snitch button!
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  • DUTR
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    Zara33 wrote: »
    :rotfl:Has that line ever worked for you before.

    Lines, you are too high quality for lines, oh do you like rose petals in your bath? ;)
  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    edited 1 June 2009 at 5:50PM
    DUTR wrote: »
    Lines, you are too high quality for lines, oh do you like rose petals in your bath? ;)
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: What you like! my bath is my business ;)
    ETA: Is this your mellow side that your showing just now :p
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  • JL77
    JL77 Posts: 13 Forumite
    thanks for some of your comments, others not so helpful!!! I am sick of everyone being on the PWC's side and the slightly militant views of some of you. To be fair Wasteland Drifter is right most of you on here are full of !!!!! and i am probably best taking proper advice from experts who actually know what they are one about!
  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    JL77 wrote: »
    thanks for some of your comments, others not so helpful!!! I am sick of everyone being on the PWC's side and the slightly militant views of some of you. To be fair Wasteland Drifter is right most of you on here are full of !!!!! and i am probably best taking proper advice from experts who actually know what they are one about!
    That's a lovely attitude :rolleyes:
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  • CMAC_2
    CMAC_2 Posts: 187 Forumite
    When you are subject to a Departure on the grounds of partners contribution towards housing costs and you dont supply your partners details there is a real chance that 100% of the housing costs will be offset against you so it is always wise under these circumstances to supply the required information. If you seperate from your partner all you need to do is tell the Agency. If they dont believe you then you have right of appeal to the First Teir Tribunal. However so does the other parent. Everyone should also bear in mind changes to legislation that took place on 6 April 2009 which allows the agency to revisit a case if once side had obtained an advatage by stating a falsehood. That applies to PWC's and NRP's alike .
  • hamstercheeks_2
    hamstercheeks_2 Posts: 1,953 Forumite
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    JL77 wrote: »
    thanks for some of your comments, others not so helpful!!! I am sick of everyone being on the PWC's side and the slightly militant views of some of you. To be fair Wasteland Drifter is right most of you on here are full of !!!!! and i am probably best taking proper advice from experts who actually know what they are one about!

    JL my partner's going thru exactly the same at the moment. Yes the PWC lied at a tribunal - on paper and we have got a copy of it. Go to your MP as that's what my partner is doing. The CSA didn't even think to question the PWC's rash allegations made at the Tribunal. Yet I phoned the CSA to complain about the lies about me and was told that I didn't have authority to speak about this (which I can understand) but it's nuts that I can't even defend myself.

    it's not about sides tho it's who the children live with and that's the 'side' as you put it that the CSA will take.

    My partner doesn't have a problem paying the CSA it's the lies that's the sickening thing - things like that make it more of a side -v-side thing.

    Finally, knowingly providing false information to the CSA by either 'side' is a criminal offence!

    good luck!
    Time is the best teacher
    Shame it kills all the students
    :p
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