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CSA want my wifes salary confirmation

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  • jamiemaboy
    jamiemaboy Posts: 14 Forumite
    dont give them anything ,its your new wifes money .what will happen if they make you pay more then she leaves you ????do you thi nk the CSA will care ???? no way mate ..
  • Loopy_Girl
    Loopy_Girl Posts: 4,444 Forumite
    If his wife left him then he could request a reassessment based on the lower income in the house.

    If you bother to read above you will see that it can be beneficial to give the NRPP wage as the CSA contribution can be lower due to housing costs.
  • jamiemaboy
    jamiemaboy Posts: 14 Forumite
    do not listen to this stupid woman here ,or loopy,DO NOT give the idiots at the CAS any details about your wifes wages ,if you have a child to your new wife then tell them that and that will help cut down your payments but please dont listen to this loopy woman who is obviouslly more scorned than me
  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    jamiemaboy wrote: »
    do not listen to this stupid woman here ,or loopy,DO NOT give the idiots at the CAS any details about your wifes wages ,if you have a child to your new wife then tell them that and that will help cut down your payments but please dont listen to this loopy woman who is obviouslly more scorned than me
    Try debating your point a little better :rolleyes:
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  • ladylumps45
    ladylumps45 Posts: 617 Forumite
    hes full of attitude as ive seen on another thread.his arrogance is disgusting.hes got out of bed the wrong side lol.hes obviously feeling bitter about things and defends the nrp even when they are in the wrong.its a waste of time reading his posts,they are insulting and rude.i think hes upset about not receiving money for his step child although he makes out hes so great that he does it by himself!
  • jamiemaboy
    jamiemaboy Posts: 14 Forumite
    oh diddums ,has an absent parent managed to rattle you a little bit ??? bout time someone like my stood up for absent parents ,i am paying £1.00 per week for my two kids (50p each lol) and guess what?, my wife is in a great paying job allowing me to take time out until as such time my two kids leave further education so that i dont give my ex more than she is entitled to by law .Can the CSA take my wifes wages into account? NO! why do you think that? because i am totally correct that i have managed to beat the dreaded CSA .i am taking my two boys on ANOTHER cruise this year and as my ex cant afford to take them anywhere and i am a wonderful father who clothes,feeds and gives them lots of love and pocketmoney.would anyone like a postcard??? silly silly yappy people ...start telling the people the correct answers instead of usin this a chat line cos your bored :T
  • duchy
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    Maybe someone who can debate coherently might be a better person to do it though ?
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  • jamiemaboy
    jamiemaboy Posts: 14 Forumite
    yes i agree ,i hope someone better than me does help absent parents ...in the mean time i will do what i can to make sure they know the law not just make up crap they think is correct ....one thing though i do agree that ALL parents should pay for their children but as most fighting when people separate is about kids and money i dont think that will happen soon ...and i bet everyone will agree with me there .:T
  • Zara33
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    Anothe for the ignore list.
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  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    edited 20 May 2009 at 3:23PM
    jamiemaboy wrote: »
    oh diddums ,has an absent parent managed to rattle you a little bit ??? bout time someone like my stood up for absent parents ,i am paying £1.00 per week for my two kids (50p each lol) and guess what?, my wife is in a great paying job allowing me to take time out until as such time my two kids leave further education so that i dont give my ex more than she is entitled to by law .Can the CSA take my wifes wages into account? NO! why do you think that? because i am totally correct that i have managed to beat the dreaded CSA .i am taking my two boys on ANOTHER cruise this year and as my ex cant afford to take them anywhere and i am a wonderful father who clothes,feeds and gives them lots of love and pocketmoney.would anyone like a postcard??? silly silly yappy people ...start telling the people the correct answers instead of usin this a chat line cos your bored :T

    jamiemaboy wrote: »
    hy guys ,i am new to this site .i need some help before i go off my head.I was working for 24 years and due to increasing mental health problems i lost my job last july .up until then i was bringing in good wages along with my wife but after losing my job and then my wife walked out i have been struggling to pay my ever increasing bills .i went to the local CAB and managed to get most of my bills reduced to token payments however the tsb bank isint playin ball and i have letters coming out my ears .i have a morgaged home and my estranged wife is helping me pay this and i am not in arrears with this .MY questions is this ...can the credit card companies take me to court and take my home off me ?half the equity in my home is my wifes so will she lose her half ? any advice would be great as i get on great with my wife now but i wouldnt want her to lose her money when she has done nothing but help me ...i live in scotland if this helps ...sorry for my long story .J :confused:

    So when is the cruise :rolleyes:

    ETA: no wonder your ex wife cant afford to take the kids away on holiday if she is paying half your mortgage but knock yourself out with praising yourself about being an excellent father :rolleyes:
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