MSE Pregnancy Club XI

tiamai_d

Tara, we did think about changing schools, but the ones who are bad live just up the road so he would have to deal with them at the park as a child who is at a different school. So we thought it would only make the problem worse. He does have a few friends at school and a few close by. It's just one particular little shoitebag (and many worse names). And we can't afford to move either! We just keep on top of it, and most of the parents down there are scared of me now anyway after I lost my temper at the shoitebags mother. I called her a bad parent, that somewhere she had went wrong with 'that one', and that she was thick (for not getting the point that she was a bad parent). Her parting words were 'My son is a good boy, I should pan your face for saying he aint' and his parting words were 'naw mam! I'll dae it!'. Her head went down and she hasn't looked at me since! Thing is, she also said she was sick of everyone coming to her door saying he had done this and that... oh I could rant about her and her family all night!

Shower was lovely, head is a little better and I feel all clean and oily now

Mrs.Moc, it must be horrid to be sitting around waiting for a bleed!!! Hope it isn't too bad and you hold on a bit longer. Although I'd love to just skip you forward a few weeks and get baby out to end all this stress for you too. xx

Sami_Bee

'ello
Don't worry about labour vibes for me, baby will come when he's ready (and hopefully that is not until Thursday at the earliest)

searching_me

im inpatient always have been... although if she hadnt told me hes ready i wouldnt of been bothered in the slightest x

Sami_Bee

Tia - as someone who has been bullied my advice to anyone who's child is being bullied is take them out of the school straight away and never make them go back to the place.
I know that sounds extreme but schools never admit there is a problem, take ages to do anything (that's IF they do anything) and even if the bullying stops the fear never leaves you and seeing the bullies just ruins your day

elle_gee

*hugs* for MrsM! I know what you mean about the flooding.. even worse when you think it's happening and turns out you're imagining it! TMI probably but I never have been a fan of pads - forever a Tampax girl me! - so I'm really not enjoying right now!

Anyway, on to nicer matters.. Rhys is coping well on CPAP. They have tried lying him on his front as it's better for clearing his lungs but he wasn't having any of it and wouldn't settle. They had him with his head to the right and his hands up flat on the mattress next to his head, and he lifted his head and slid his left hand underneath so he was sleeping on it - bless him! Looked so cute! In the end they've put him back on his back cos he wouldn't settle. They usually have special CPAP dummies (have a little notch cut out so they fit with the CPAP mask better) but have none in stock right now so we've got the next smallest one they have - it's so diddy! Has gone in the steriliser just to be sure then they'll give him it in a while. He's so active right now and keeps putting his hands to his mouth that we expect he'll pull it out but will give it a go

My parents came to visit then took me home so I could see the progress in the kitchen and bathroom. We now have a new back door since the last time I went home. Has pretty glass in it

My mum and sister are going shopping tomorrow so I just said to OH that I think I'll ask them to get me some cheap linen trousers in a size 10 (currently wearing size 8 mat jeans which are a bit thick for this weather) and he suggested i go into town with them.. Hmmm, not sure. I know I probably should but it feels a bit far away (even though it's probably only ten mins max!). Will see what sort of night we have and decide in the morning..

Btw, slight gloat moment.. I know I only did three quarters of pregnancy but I got away with getting no stretchmarks at all!

tarajayne

Then the school need to sort something Ti, it's not fair. We are so lucky here, was never a case of bullying in the time I worked in school. The older kids wouldn't stand for it. When minor incidents happen they always step in straight away and nip it in the bud. Is there not a buddy system in your school, where a couple of older kids keep an eye out for him, works really well.

Sami_Bee

searching_me wrote: »

im inpatient always have been... although if she hadnt told me hes ready i wouldnt of been bothered in the slightest x

its funny I'm one of those people that hates Christmas because I want it NOW but with bubba I'm not fussed I think its coz I know this particular 'thing' isn't a gift that I'll be bored off in a week

searching_me

i was bullied as well so badly i was taken out of school then i decided i wanted to go back and face them dont ask me where the strength came from but no the school was useless and although they helped me with coursework they hid that i was bullied...
awwwww elle hes doing really well so happy for you x

Sami_Bee

elle_gee wrote: »

*hugs* for MrsM! I know what you mean about the flooding.. even worse when you think it's happening and turns out you're imagining it! TMI probably but I never have been a fan of pads - forever a Tampax girl me! - so I'm really not enjoying right now!

OK so this has ruined my night ;)
I've just realised I'll be all sweaty with big massive pads while its all hot n sunny
I hate pads!! I always end up with a botty covered in spots from them:rolleyes:

in other news tho, Rhys has cheered me up no end! :T

money_maker_3

I dont believe you called your baby a thing !!!!!!!!!!!!

I will start to get a bit impatient if this weather keeps up, but as it is supposed to start cooling down after tomorrow, I might be able to hold on till the 18th without climbing the walls !!

Unless of course sami and SM both go well in front of me and I have no night owls to talk to, then I might have to cry !!