MSE Pregnancy Club XI

searching_me

awwww my OH aint bothered about me being a SAHM or not he just really wants a job so he can help pay for things bless him x

searching_me

glam just looking through my old cookin books and found a recipe for creamed coconut macaroons... so guess what im making tomorrow x

xmaslolly76

He can have mine searching do you recon he could handle being a nursery nurse to 60 fully grown men who spit their dummys out on a regular basis lol ;-) x

boogellyboo

My OH keeps trying to come up with ways I could be a SAHM, he does the ebay trading for his company and lets me know how well their doing every so often and how much their making in the hope that I might do something similar. Unfortunately I loathe ebay selling with a passion! We used to make and sell things on their and you get asked so many mindless questions it drives me insane!

searching_me

sounds most men i know so ya sure why not :rotfl: x

searching_me

boo ive only ever sold one thing on ebay and that was my soild dance mat not to bad to be honest but i dont really have anything to sell on ebay that i cant get rid of at my work x

searching_me

ok these twinges have to stop otherwise im gonna get my hopes up :rotfl: x

boogellyboo

Searching Im having another birthday once bubbas born too. Me and OH share our birth date anyway and we got engaged this year on my birthday too which although very special, I didnt really get to celebrate as was dying with morning sickness and couldnt drink/eat the foods Id want!

Ooh, sisters gone to put the oven on :T

xmaslolly76

We have been discussing the SAHM thing recently and it would appear we are actually better off with me being at home due to childcare costs i have to pay out once he moves in permanantly as i loose the majority of my tax credits. On the one hand i would love it being there for my kids 24/7 not missing out an all the things i usually do. On the other hand i have an active mind and like to be kept busy i thrive on stress and love adult conversation and attention so will i be climbing the walls 12 months down the line plus the other biggy for me is being a kept woman it has never been me i earn my money and i hate the thought of having to ask for things.

searching_me

boo for the last 4-5 years my birthday has gone !!!!! up and i always end up just making a big fuss over OH so it feels like i get something as well... OH is not bothered by birthdays what so ever as long as he gets a little something something hes happy :rotfl: x