Daily chat thread 15th May 'oh noes ma OH is away today :('

(Land_of)_Maz

becky_rtw wrote: »

Okay peeps so I know I see things in very black and white but I have some honest questions regarding OHs...

Now I realise that you'll have separate friends and interests which is fine, but surely being part of a couple is doing some stuff together??

If they dont like it then they arent really bringing much to the couple equation and surely they need sitting down with the plain facts 'if you dont make an effort to come out with me as a couple more often then its likely I'll find someone who will' not a threat just the obvious.

And also why dont you invite yourself along to their nights out too

exactly how a relationship should be in an ideal world... but in reality some of us settle for less for whatever reasons...

finding someone else who will appreciate you isn't that easy either... it takes a long time to find anyone, never mind anyone who ticks all the boxes....

plus when you have kids, a house, joint financial responsibilites together the fact that you're not getting some of your needs met is less of an issue, as a lot of your greater needs are being met adequately out of the equation....

so yes, not black and white unfortunately....

Burlesque_Babe

bookseller1980 wrote: »

Just tell him you're off to meet a load of strangers with funny names.

oh he knows that already I always use your real names though, but I do have to stop and think twice before I say our MSE names!!

scaredy_cat

I have some French Fanices which are calling my name.......

Burlesque_Babe

becky_rtw wrote: »

And also why dont you invite yourself along to their nights out too

tried that..........I get a very stern 'no you are not' :rolleyes:

Burlesque_Babe

scaredy_cat wrote: »

I have some French Fanices which are calling my name.......

I could make a very un-PC comment there, but I'd neet Notty around to back me up that he isn't bothere by it :rotfl:

becky_rtw

HAHAHA BB can you not just turn up - bet his mates would be well pleased to see you - he prob doesnt like it because you are more sociable than him and show him up

scaredy_cat

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

I could make a very un-PC comment there, but I'd neet Notty around to back me up that he isn't bothere by it :rotfl:

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: i dare you....:D

sallyx

oooo this time next week I'll be off on my holidays..OMG I haven't checked that they have internet access

becky_rtw

I'm not a settler I'm afraid - which is why I'm unlikely to ever be married, but its not a huge problem since I dont want kids anyway

(thanks for the responses by the way I was curious is all)

sallyx

Hey never say never Becky. You might find (or have found ) someone who is just like that too and wants the same things!