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collect items in person?

Hi

I want to bid on an item that is ending in the next hour or so. The ebayer lives in the same town as me, so as the postage on 6 items of kids clothing is £9.50, I would prefer to collect. I have asked them if this would be possible, but have not yet had a reply. Do you think it is ok for me to bid and hopefully win and ask if I can collect the items on winning?

Thanks

Sue
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  • Lorian
    Lorian Posts: 6,507 Forumite
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    Alas only the seller can answer that. Some sellers just plain don't like to deal face to face.
  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    You can ask if you win, but if they say No, will you pay the £9.50 for p&p (or maybe less if they combine postage)??

    I don't allow collection, but my OH has met people before to 'do the deal' (he must look like a right dodgy character swapping goods and cash in public car parks lol)
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  • mikeassured
    mikeassured Posts: 311 Forumite
    To be honest they must be making on the postage because it is only 3 year olds tee shirts, so cant imagine it would be that heavy! Item only has one bid of £2, so maybe they would insist on posting! Not sure what to do now, if I win and say I prefer to meet or collect and they say no, then I get a neg feedback!
  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    To be honest they must be making on the postage because it is only 3 year olds tee shirts, so cant imagine it would be that heavy! Item only has one bid of £2, so maybe they would insist on posting! Not sure what to do now, if I win and say I prefer to meet or collect and they say no, then I get a neg feedback!

    You can't say what you prefer, you have to abide by their terms.

    If you don't get a reply to your question, don't bid.
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  • bleugh
    bleugh Posts: 1,796 Forumite
    some people dont like strangers coming to the house :-(
    money saving my @rse.
    I've spent 10x as much as I would if I had never discovered this website :-)
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  • highguyuk
    highguyuk Posts: 2,763 Forumite
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    I wouldnt let anyone collect small items of mine ... no way!

    eBay just doesn't work like that!
  • And some sellers deliberately charge higher than actual postage in order to earn more and avoid paying ebay fees so won't be keen to lose that part of their profit.
  • photome
    photome Posts: 16,728 Forumite
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    highguyuk wrote:
    I wouldnt let anyone collect small items of mine ... no way!

    eBay just doesn't work like that!



    Why not?

    I sell a little on ebay and always add that if the buyer wants to collect there would be no postage charge.

    I dont see it as a problem unless of course sellers are making a profit on their postage charges ( i only ever charge what it costs me)
  • highguyuk
    highguyuk Posts: 2,763 Forumite
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    Because people dont want random strangers turning up at the door to collect there £2.37p playstation one retro game just to avoid paying postage.
  • Stuart_P
    Stuart_P Posts: 814 Forumite
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    allowing payment in person? pure unadulterated hassle!!

    you want to wait in for buyers to deliver £5?? it is bad enough waiting for the postman to turn up at a decent hour or worse the citylink man arriving at 5.27pm :mad:
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