Spending, saving, snogging and smiling!

Snaggles

Morning!

Right will have a good look at B&C insurance today and follow up all suggestions, thanks for those. :T

Errrrrr.....the date. Well. It was possibly the most :wall: date I have ever been on. Lovely guy, cute, got on well, had a couple of drinks and a lovely chat...

And then he kissed me and it was truly terrible. :doh: Not just 'bit nervous and hasn't kissed a girl for a while' terrible, but full-on shockingly bad, and wouldn't take the hints I was giving him to slow down and relax.

I'm very confused about what to do. He's a great guy, but I just couldn't put up with him kissing me again. Feels a little bit like life is taking the pee out of me at the moment! :rotfl:

I will investigate bingo sites this evening I think, and will have a nosey around the rest of MSE and see what little ways people are finding of bringing in a bit extra money at the moment.

Welcome aboard Lilmissmup, how are you finding the single life? I have been single for a year already :eek: can't believe how fast it has gone!!

jinky67

Snaggles wrote: »

Errrrrr.....the date. Well. It was possibly the most :wall: date I have ever been on. Lovely guy, cute, got on well, had a couple of drinks and a lovely chat...

And then he kissed me and it was truly terrible. :doh: Not just 'bit nervous and hasn't kissed a girl for a while' terrible, but full-on shockingly bad, and wouldn't take the hints I was giving him to slow down and relax.

I'm very confused about what to do. He's a great guy, but I just couldn't put up with him kissing me again. Feels a little bit like life is taking the pee out of me at the moment! :rotfl:

well dont write him off just yet.....he may just need lessons;);)

Snaggles wrote:

I have been single for a year already :eek: can't believe how fast it has gone!!

So have I:D sure does fly doesnt it?

Snaggles

I did wonder if I should just tell him honestly - not say 'you're really bad', but maybe just say that our style of kissing isn't compatible, and maybe we could work on it?

But then, if I really really liked him, maybe it wouldn't have bothered me so much. Neither Shrek nor Mr Sunday were spectacular kissers (good but not great), and I really didn't care.

jinky67

I wouldnt even say it incase you upset him, or give him a complex
I would seriously go with the "I like when I am kissed this way"

vandanfc

Morning. Hope you have a successful day. Don't know what to say about the kissing, maybe what Jinky said. If he slowed down would it be better ? Maybe he was just nervous ? I would give it another go though, because at least you had a nice night apart from that.

Snaggles

I tried showing him what I liked and being subtle - it didn't work. I then tried the not-so-subtle, and that didn't work. So I either need to just dump him as gently as I can, or tell him honestly what the problem is.

My head is saying try again, but my heart is saying 'dump him'.

vandanfc

Hi

Don't know what nappies you buy, but just seen mentioned on another board that Adsa have a special on pampers at the mo. This person got 198 size 5 for £18 - I assume that is good.

Gina_of_course!

Just read all this diary....

Snaggles....
just a quick one one in relation to the ex fella who likes playing mind games...

I love this short poem and hope you do too..

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]AUTOBIOGRAPHY IN FIVE SHORT CHAPTERS[/FONT]

by Portia Nelson

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][SIZE=-1]I[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][SIZE=-1]I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk
I fall in.
I am lost ... I am helpless.
It isn't my fault.
It takes me forever to find a way out.[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][SIZE=-1]II[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][SIZE=-1]I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don't see it.
I fall in again.
I can't believe I am in the same place
but, it isn't my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][SIZE=-1]III[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][SIZE=-1]I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in ... it's a habit.
my eyes are open
I know where I am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][SIZE=-1]IV[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][SIZE=-1]I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][SIZE=-1]V[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif][SIZE=-1]I walk down another street.[/SIZE][/FONT]

lilmissmup

Snaggles wrote: »

Welcome aboard Lilmissmup, how are you finding the single life? I have been single for a year already :eek: can't believe how fast it has gone!!

Ups and Downs, wasn't my choice but it was for the best. Won't drag it all up in your diary though.

I spent two months crying lots and begging him back in hysterics but have been a lot better last few weeks as I finally realised seeing him and speaking to him was a bad idea, I can't be friends with someone I was with for a long time and lived with too painful

So not seen him for a month, had a phone conversation for over 3 weeks and no contact for 9 days again now, last time he initiated communication too, last time i initiated it was nearly 3 weeks again too.

Now trying to get my escape plan together as want to move away, partly cos of him, partly cos i live in a dump and if I don't move soon I think I will never leave, League of Gentlemen anyone

GeorgeUK

Hang on Snaggles, you kissed - on the first date????!!!!

Dump him - he's a floozy