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Got myself a bargain but seller makes a loss

Hi, Won an auction for an expensive computer book. Got it for £1.04 and paid £2.50 postage.

It came today and its brand new, the cd hasnt even been opened. Turns out he had to send it by standard parcels at a cost of £4.41 so after postage and fees hes probably about £1.20 down.

Im all for getting myself a 0.99p bargain but feel guilty about this. Hes a private seller.

What do you think i should do.

Thanks
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  • aliasojo
    aliasojo Posts: 23,053 Forumite
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    edited 18 April 2009 at 10:05AM
    vangirl wrote: »
    What do you think i should do.

    Thanks

    Give yourself a pat on the back for being a caring type of person...then move on.

    That's the risk of eBay imo, some you win some you dont. It was his choice to list at a low start price. :confused:


    Edit: If it is really bothering you, you could always send him an extra £1.91 to cover the postage. Depends on how you feel really. If it were me, I wouldn't bother. I'm sure he'll use this as a learning exercise for next time anyway.
    Herman - MP for all! :)
  • Cazza
    Cazza Posts: 1,165 Forumite
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    That's the way it goes, it might have been an unwanted gift, or he may have picked it up at a car boot sale.
  • fletty
    fletty Posts: 731 Forumite
    hi this happened to me i sold some jigsaws on ebay and the postage was higher then expected and in the end it cost me to post them - the lady who recieved them was so pleased with the item she gave me a paypal charge back ( i think thats what it's called) for £1.50 which covered the extra postage, I never asked for it and it was acomplete surprise, it's nice to know there's nice people out there.
    :beer:
  • vangirl_2
    vangirl_2 Posts: 1,956 Forumite
    edited 18 April 2009 at 10:14AM
    Thanks, I have a tendancy to overthink things. My OH says leave it too but never take any notice of him, lol. If I was to pay extra, how much would be appropriate?
  • vangirl wrote: »
    Thanks, I have a tendancy to overthink things. My OH says leave it too but never take any notice of him, lol. If I was to pay extra, how much would be appropriate?

    What a nice person you are.

    If I were to "gift" them it would be a couple of quid.
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  • Cazza
    Cazza Posts: 1,165 Forumite
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    If you really want to do something, I'd pay the difference on the postage, so £1.91????
  • salesadmin
    salesadmin Posts: 271 Forumite
    I've sent more money to someone before because it was a game my mother-in-law desperatley wanted, postage was about £1.50 more so sent her that. Got a lovely email thanking me.

    Just send the postage difference, it will be appreciated!
    Married 5th June 2010
    1st Baby born 12th April 2011:j
  • I won a new computer book a while back for about £3.75 including postage and it cost the seller at least £4 just to post it...
    I wouldn't do anything. Shame for the seller but it's their fault for not setting a higher starting price.

    Think of the times you've paid over the odds for postage on ebay...
    Or the times you've sold something that totally wasn't worth the effort...
  • theoretica
    theoretica Posts: 12,691 Forumite
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    How about putting a couple of pounds extra into a charity collection and telling the seller you did so?
    But a banker, engaged at enormous expense,
    Had the whole of their cash in his care.
    Lewis Carroll
  • vangirl_2
    vangirl_2 Posts: 1,956 Forumite
    Thanks for all your advice think im going to pay the extra postage and leave it at that.
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