The Compers Inn - Part 16

melvis

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

melvis thats terrible tell her to get stuffed you aint cancelling:D

Exactly! I ain't cancelling! If I hadn't text her inviting her here she would never have told me about her party, relying on forgetful drunk OH to pass a message on? :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

melvis

BBQ ideas people?? writing my shopping list ...

katiekittykat

NoNameWoman wrote: »

No it is not embarrassing, it is loving; it is what couples should do for each other. x It is hard enough putting up with pain for a day just keep up your physio routine and everything else that helps you minimise your pain..hope you get better soon.


Kerri, hope you get better too x

Aw thanks hun - it was even worse when i couldn't feel when i needed the loo i was terrified i was going to wet the bed or worse with him lay next to me - needless to say i hardly slept then and was up and down all night going to the loo.

Am quite upset some of you may know about my aunt who is dying of cancer - she keeps making up excuses to my mum as to why i can't go round - she confessed to my mum that she doesn't want me to see her like that - as all she does is sit in bed and break her heart crying - the dr has given her some anti depressants as last week she couldn't have the chemo she needs to stop the pain as she was that bad - i hope they work enough so i can go and see her - she is my god mother and i love her to bits so want to see her, but i have to respect her wishes and wait until she is ready. But i am scared if she misses more chemo her tumor will grow bigger and she will have less time left - at the mo - it hasn't shrunk and it hasn't grown - but i am scared that if she missed chemo again it will.

Sorry all just had to get that off my chest i just want to see her and hug her xxxx

cathyj

melvis, that is out of order, I agree with sfh, she cant expect you to cancel as she is not the only person you invited to your party, and as others are already coming along to you if she doesnt want to merge them, carry on anyway.
x

scottishfreebiehunter

((())) lots of hugs for you to Katie




Melvis hope weather is good do you have covered area?
right lets see dips, coleslaw, potato salad, humous etc etc AND BOOZE:rotfl:

NoNameWoman

SFH, do you have to use his car? The best thing is to distance yourself from everything related to him, if possible. You don't want to know whatever he's doing.?

My jerk ex who lives in France rang me to tell me he's buying his wife-to-be some undies !!! Do I really give a S---t about that!!! Luckily for him, I had already put him behind me years ago and it was me who moved on anyway but I still found it distasteful and very petty of him.

There are some men who keep the respect after a relationship ends, I really admire those, but many are just insensitive idiots.

katiekittykat

Hugs to all those who need them xxxxx

Munchkim

melvis wrote: »

BBQ ideas people?? writing my shopping list ...

Get some banana's, chocolate and tin foil.

carefully peel 1 side off the banana but not all the way, slice through the banana itself and push squares of chocolate in the cuts. Fold the skin back, wrap in foil to hold in place then put on the bbq. Once they've cooked through, the skin goes black and the banana goes mushy which is yummy with the melted choccie:D

melvis

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

((())) lots of hugs for you to Katie




Melvis hope weather is good do you have covered area?
right lets see dips, coleslaw, potato salad, humous etc etc AND BOOZE:rotfl:

The booze list is huge :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Do I buy potato salad or make it? I lack salad knowledge :rotfl: I know how to throw a normal salad together? :rotfl::rotfl: undomestic goddess that I am!

we're getting a big marquee style gazebo from Argos tomorrow, also courtesy of Nectar need to get some lights for out there too!

krailton

SFH ((((Hugs))))) xx
KKK(((((Hugs)))) xx
Melvis thats just not fair and hope she answers you soon, and have a great party xx
Leg of lamb cooking and nearly done and oh gone to pick mil and great nan up...