does anyone know the answer

Sunny_Bear

Blimey missmugwump, calm down, talk about an over reaction!!!

The form asks for your partners contribution, it is one box that you just put a figure, no where on the form does it say you have to put down your partners income in full. Yes the OR may ask, but its unlikely unless what you put on the form is rediculous, ie, 0 contribution but working.

I think you need to calm down a bit, why make someones elses post like this, eh......... not fair.

philnicandamy

glam_jan_56 wrote: »

why stick to a pm because this is not the place to argue..for one thing it looks crap & is unfair on the OP to hijack. we all need to know what is been said.not the conflict part. the info that you are all trying to help out with,this may be helpfull to others wanting that info. however i for one have enough stress around me, i dont want to come here an have unhelpfull arguing with each other.ill prob get a smart reply now to this to upset me even more.....i hope not

hope that helps

missymugwump

1) I was misquoted by Peachy,you can't correct someone for a word they did not use,"asked" and "required" have quite different meanings,I trust someone will agree with me on that ?

2) I was accused of being out of conrxt by Peachy when that section was an exact quote from IS,so they are out of context then ? and it was in context to the OP's question

3)I was then told my posts are confusing,full of waffle and that I only cut & paste

4) That because I do understand the manual I should dumb it down for posters who cant


I'm not too sure what I did wrong other than dare to suggest that someone was wrong
It is obvious to me that some of the "dinosaurs" are stretching their muscles

I have been through a reasonably complicated bankruptcy and wished to help ,I cant help my manner any more than I can help my accent or appearance

Some thing I know are fact because I have lived them,not read them from a book or pasted them into my life

I apologise to anyone I have offended and mostly to the OP I hope you get the advice you were looking for

I would like this matter closed
It is as said bad for the forum

Bluebelle72

"4) That because I do understand the manual I should dumb it down for posters who cant"

I feel this is a bit of a low blow to me personally missy as I have taken your advice on board on one of my threads I said in reply to one of your posts that I didn't understand you and that you had lost me! I don't think people who don't understand the manual need it "dumbing down" as you put it, more like explaining in real mans terms instead of the jargon they tend to use.

dreamcatcher73

I'm sorry to hear that there has been a misunderstanding between posters, I'm sure no-one meant anything malicious by anything they have said.

Now can everyone just shake hands and forget it! Come on guys, kiss and make up :kisses:

philnicandamy

missymugwump wrote: »

It is obvious to me that some of the "dinosaurs" are stretching their muscles

OMG.....how can you see me???? :rotfl:

missymugwump

we can all cut & paste quite easily :rolleyes:.......all your posts seem to do is do cause more confusion & put potential posters off because they dont understand what your waffling about.....

some members wont read through the IS tec manual because they simply cant understand it...

Bluebell I agree with you it was implied that people dont understand my posts
I didnt say it myself I was saying thats how I took the above quote to read

dreamcatcher73

philnicandamy wrote: »

OMG.....how can you see me???? :rotfl:

Phil! Stop it! Let this thread die quietly!

Made me smile though :rotfl:

Bluebelle72

OMG!!! ROFL!! That is sooo funny!!! I'm quite literally PMSL!!! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: :T:T

Bluebelle72

Banging head against a brick wall comes to mind here!!!!