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LJ1
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My elderly mother is hopeless with money - she is housbound and i go to the bank etc for her. About a year ago she went into hospital and while in ambulance she told me about various boxes she had in house - i think i found about 10k in total - i put this into a old bank account for safe keeping as didnt have access to her bank accounts - she ended up being in hospital for 11 weeks. As i do shopping etc for her and buy larger items if needed, ie new washiing machine, TV etc i have just used the money set aside in my bank account to buy these things - my mum is happy for this to happen, and its easier for me - however i feel i really should have something drawn up to say the money in this particular account is in fact my mums and i am holding it for her. Does anyone know if there is something i can do - ie a DIY document - or does this have to be via lawyer.
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You could put the money back into your mums account and get the bank to draw up a third party mandate or you could open up a joint account up with your mum of which either of you could sign on the account and both will be able to hold cards and chq books.
Hope this helps.Save £12K IN 2013 Member #217 £3654.88/£6,000 (60%)
Shares: £273.36 (Bought £494.14) £220.78
SIPP: £5,366.63 (Bought £5,429.44) £503
S&S ISA: £11,560.70 (Bought £10,537.58) £1,023.120 -
Easiest way is to have her sign a letter, in front of a witness (who also signs), that confirms what you've said. If the issue is just that she's elderly then this will be sufficient. If you think there's likely to be a dispute (eg: later on family complaining about it) then you should do it with a solicitor to prevent any non compos mentis claims. A solicitor won't charge you much to do it anyway.Mmmm, credit crunch. Tasty.0
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