csa and redundancy

Blob

Sou

I accept your point, and yes we are on different sides of teh same coin, I have no prob with you takeing a different point of view at all.

All I am saying is that tolleramce is a good thing.

Again please believe me I am not trying to defend anyone at all.

Soubrette

Blob wrote: »

Sou

I accept your point, and yes we are on different sides of teh same coin, I have no prob with you takeing a different point of view at all.

All I am saying is that tolleramce is a good thing.

Again please believe me I am not trying to defend anyone at all.

OK, but I refuse to be tolerant of intolerance or rudeness

Plus people who refuse maintenance or access, because that is not putting the children first

We are different sides of the same coin and I can only hope that one day our exes meet up and get together - they sound like they deserve each other :rotfl:

Sou

woody01

Soubrette wrote: »

We disagree but you are helpful and I have never heard you call anyone stupid. Woody on the other hand is a very poor advocate of the NRP and not a person I personally would want to consider 'on my side' of an argument.
Sou

To straighten this out......I AM NOT AN NRP
Is there any other language you would like this so it finally gets absorbed by you??? :wall:

Soubrette wrote: »

Blob, I agree with your sentiments but I cannot agree to someone like woody being rude and ill mannered to people in a difficult situations, if someone spoke to you or distorted your posts in the same way that woody has done to mine then I would speak up in your defence, even, as is extremely likely, I did not agree with the content of your posts.

We disagree but you are helpful and I have never heard you call anyone stupid. Woody on the other hand is a very poor advocate of the NRP and not a person I personally would want to consider 'on my side' of an argument.

He demeans that which he is trying to defend.

It disappoints me immeasurable that posters whom I like and some I admire try to defend him.

Sou

And the reason being is that you only see your side of the argument and therefore convinced yourself that you are right.
You are just so blinkered in your own viewpoint that you do not even read other points of view. I also seem to be reading that your posts on this subject are of the very ill mannered, ill informed and rude nature which your have the gaul to accuse me of.

Soubrette wrote: »

OK, but I refuse to be tolerant of intolerance or rudeness
Sou

Pot.
Kettle
Black
:rolleyes:

When push comes to shove, your viewpoint is from personal experience. Obviously a bitter thing for you and it has produced such tunnel vision in this subject that you cannot possibly have an abject view on it.

If you are this condescending in real life, its hardly suprising you have this 'first hand' experience.

kelloggs36

Nobody has said you are an NRP but you appear to be speaking on their behalf which is what an advocate would be.

woody01

kelloggs36 wrote: »

Nobody has said you are an NRP but you appear to be speaking on their behalf which is what an advocate would be.

Read back and you will see that is incorrect.

LizzieS_2

Woody, your male and not a nrp - what exactly is your interest in csa matters?

woody01

LizzieS wrote: »

Woody, your male and not a nrp - what exactly is your interest in csa matters?

Lets just say i have a very close interest for a third party.

catenorfolk

Hi Woody, just wondered if you have any kids and if you actually know the cost of raising them. ???

Blob

His interest in this may be that he is watching the CSA distroy one of his children and is not imprest!

If the CSA are still heree when my kids have children and they get involved, I just wounder which side my ex will be on as she is useing the CSA to try to destroy me. It would follow that she would then support the CSA as it tries to destroy one of our children. What kind of a mother would that make her?

Wounder just how many PWC have thought that far ahead and just what they will do in that situation? Attitudes may suddenly change then if they dont then the people concerned should look very closely at themselvs and ask what kind of parent am I?

woody01

catenorfolk wrote: »

Hi Woody, just wondered if you have any kids and if you actually know the cost of raising them. ???

Yes I have 2.
Yes i am well aware of the costs.
Also, i am 100% responsible for there needs, monetary, emotionally or otherwise....

I am also not holding any ex wife to ransom to achieve it.

(Thankyou Blob for your previous comment )