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  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    The heck we have.
    None of the regular posters on this thread have goaded, bullied or harassed anyone on the forums.
    Do you have any proof? can you name any thread with anything that is even close to what you describe?

    Actually the whole point of this thread is to help people to ignore some of the nastier posters. We have not done anything to your brother, we have not laid in to anyone.

    So consider these things (if you have the faculties) before you post such carp.

    EDIT: Ah yes Horace we goad and harass the trolls. Is your brother a troll?
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    Bump from 2
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
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    Cartiphilius
    I'm not going to say who I think your brother is,
    From the people on DFW, the good advice your brother gave was welcolmed
    by a lot of people.
    The mental health problems with your brother are something we tried to help with him, along with people on other boards, hopeing that in the times of lucidity, he might take them on board.
    We do protect those that help, those that are vulnerable,
    we give help, support and advice freely, to people in debt,
    and alot are in depression,we can't help the ones that need propper medical attention
    No matter how hard we try or want to

    We are real people aswell
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
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    Hope I sleep tonight,
    tried filling in the CCS things, probably spent more time crying than writing.

    Sometimes a tactical withdrawl, still feels like a lost battle, in the war
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Hope I sleep tonight,
    tried filling in the CCS things, probably spent more time crying than writing.

    :grouphug:
    Sometimes a tactical withdrawl, still feels like a lost battle, in the war

    It's not a lost battle at all - just a shift in tactics. Wars are not won by courage alone.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • emily_jackson
    emily_jackson Posts: 1,695 Forumite
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    Cartiphilus I've always found the people on this thread to be great, not in the least bit cruel. Why don't you at least have the courage to name the people that you're talking about?
    rog2 yes DH & I are fine thanks. How are you?
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    You should all give yourselves a clap on the backs. My brother's just been taken to hospital because of goading, bullying, harassment from some on this thread. But I shouldn't for one second any of you would even admit to doing any wrong. Too easy. You attack and label people very cruelly yet are as bad as the people you label incorrectly.

    So, just to say, hope some of you are satisfied with all the goading and where it's now led.

    Seems you don't return loyalty, bite the hand that helps you first sign of any trouble.
    And that people who supported you in the past quickly get forgotten when a gang gathers and people just start laying into someone without fully appreciating the person behind the persecution, nor what actually may be going on. No, you just lay right in, fists flying and people get hurt.

    You really have no idea what you have done to a very kind, very generous human being. Nor would I imagine you even have the conscience to even consider how wrong your actions are.

    So consider these things (if you have the faculties) before you start labelling people incorrectly. Too much to ask, though.

    Alas you have completely the wrong board.

    Please make sure you have the right target before waving the shotgun around.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Horace
    Horace Posts: 14,426 Forumite
    :grouphug: Numpty - you're not alone in hating forms. I hate forms and was applying for a debit card for my business account which when it came was impossible to read and I am certainly not going to strain my eyes reading it so I have asked them to send it in large print and could they put a note on my file that all correspondence has to be in large print:D

    Hopefully you will get on better with them tomorrow.

    Hi Emily long time no see - hope you and OH are doing ok?

    Have had a bit of a wasted evening tonight - my mate came to pick me up and we went off to a meeting at some cricket club or other so there was she in her uniform lugging a defibrilator and me carrying her handbag and mine - a cricket match was on but we went into the clubhouse for the meeting to find that the nincompoop who had organised had cancelled and not told us:mad: Still, I managed to watch the apprentice and am waiting for the grand final on Sunday (I hope the brummie doesnt win).
  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    Hope I sleep tonight,
    tried filling in the CCS things, probably spent more time crying than writing.

    Sometimes a tactical withdrawl, still feels like a lost battle, in the war

    Try again tomorrow Numpts.....its a tough business & always will seem worst at night.

    Fresh eyes.... in a new day Hun. Look at it tomorrow.

    Night Angex

    Btw....BUMP !!!!
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Good morning all
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
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