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My Apologies

To anybody i may have upset,offended or anything last evening with my post.:embarasse

I wont respond to all the replies as it will take too long

For those who offered support Thanks

For those who wanted to string me up by my privates I understand

I wasn't trying to be he-man about going through BR alone and was not trying to be a bully

I was as one person stated a bit frustrated at not finding an answer to my thread and came home after a few jars and went loopy. (No justification i know)

In the cold light of day and after some thought have remembered that a forum is an open place for people to talk about what they wish

I regret my actions and again apologise :embarasse
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  • dalip
    dalip Posts: 7,045 Forumite
    Hey we all need to vent at times but not at each other;)


    Takes a big person to appologise:T,thankyou.Dx
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  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    It takes a big man to apologise.....your "vent" last night could have done god knows what damage..imagine if you were someone new to here looking for answers? after your little outburst your lucky I took the time to answer your other post....but thats how we are here NEVER hold grudges here & most of all NEVER vent at each other...the clue is in the name of this forum "bankruptcy & living with it" if you didnt like the diarys etc then do what others have said & go elsewhere...all your experiance of bankruptcy can be used for good & help people in many ways...NOT like you posted that helped nobody

    as you have probably seen your post has now been locked & hopefully will be deleted soon then this matter can be forgotten
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  • coldoasis
    coldoasis Posts: 139 Forumite
    Philnicandamy

    Thank you for your reply

    Yes i do hope it disappears :embarasse

    To be perfectly honest when i see your reply on the thread the magnitude of the mistake sunk in that bit further
    Ive seen some of the sterling work you have done on here and can see by your post count that you have helped others many times

    i felt like i'd upset one of the bigger players

    Apologies once more
  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    Hi coldoasis

    Thankyou for your apologies ...like others have said it is appreciated & I know that sometimes life generally can be frustrating but I`m glad its all sorted.

    Hope you can resolve the issue with your credit file & hope you let us know how you go on ...although it will be a very, very long time before I need (or even want) to go anywhere near any kind of credit ever again (EVER!!!)

    BTW I noticed you only joined in Feb09 so welcome to the mad house!!!

    Angiexx
  • Lost2
    Lost2 Posts: 15,633 Forumite
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    3.gif lets have a group Hug :)
    we all feel like screaming when we don't seem to be getting anywhere

    To-morrow is another day....
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  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    Top Man :T:T:T:T:T I presume you are a He :D

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  • Lensman_2
    Lensman_2 Posts: 1,506 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    dalip wrote: »
    Takes a big person to appologise:T,thankyou.Dx
    And a human one too.

    This forum has helped me immensely. There is an emotional dimension to our situations that most of us have to cope with too. For a lot of us that dimension is as large as the problem itself. The posters that take it all on and cope remarkably well, like you, are fairly rare.

    One of the things that make this board stand out is the humanity that people show to others on it. If that means "soppy" e-hugs then so be it. I don't see them like that, but I appreciate that some others do.

    I thank you for you apology. Not just because it took some guts to do, but because it shows that you are human too.

    ATB
    Jim
  • ladylumps45
    ladylumps45 Posts: 617 Forumite
    well i have to admit that im really surprised to see your apology as i assumed by your post that you were one of those ignorant ,rude people that enjoys putting people down even when they have hit rock bottom.
    it takes alot to apologise and its great that you have.thankyou.
    i can now see that you are actually a decent person .lets just hope that others can accept it and move on and forget about it.i wish you all the best.:D
  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    Lost2 wrote: »
    3.gif lets have a group Hug :)
    ..

    Oooohhh can I be the one in the middle pleeese :D:D:D ....been a sh*ty day for me!!
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