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My Apologies

coldoasis
Posts: 139 Forumite
To anybody i may have upset,offended or anything last evening with my post.:embarasse
I wont respond to all the replies as it will take too long
For those who offered support Thanks
For those who wanted to string me up by my privates I understand
I wasn't trying to be he-man about going through BR alone and was not trying to be a bully
I was as one person stated a bit frustrated at not finding an answer to my thread and came home after a few jars and went loopy. (No justification i know)
In the cold light of day and after some thought have remembered that a forum is an open place for people to talk about what they wish
I regret my actions and again apologise :embarasse
I wont respond to all the replies as it will take too long
For those who offered support Thanks
For those who wanted to string me up by my privates I understand
I wasn't trying to be he-man about going through BR alone and was not trying to be a bully
I was as one person stated a bit frustrated at not finding an answer to my thread and came home after a few jars and went loopy. (No justification i know)
In the cold light of day and after some thought have remembered that a forum is an open place for people to talk about what they wish
I regret my actions and again apologise :embarasse
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Hey we all need to vent at times but not at each other;)
Takes a big person to appologise:T,thankyou.DxFree impartial debt advice available from: National Debtline - Tel: 0808 808 4000 | The Consumer Credit Counselling Service (CCCS) - Tel: 0800 138 1111 | Find your local Citizens Advice Bureau
Laugh at yourself and others laugh with you.Laugh at others and you laugh alone. BSC No 107:D0 -
It takes a big man to apologise.....your "vent" last night could have done god knows what damage..imagine if you were someone new to here looking for answers? after your little outburst your lucky I took the time to answer your other post....but thats how we are here NEVER hold grudges here & most of all NEVER vent at each other...the clue is in the name of this forum "bankruptcy & living with it" if you didnt like the diarys etc then do what others have said & go elsewhere...all your experiance of bankruptcy can be used for good & help people in many ways...NOT like you posted that helped nobody
as you have probably seen your post has now been locked & hopefully will be deleted soon then this matter can be forgottenWe all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will0 -
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Philnicandamy
Thank you for your reply
Yes i do hope it disappears :embarasse
To be perfectly honest when i see your reply on the thread the magnitude of the mistake sunk in that bit further
Ive seen some of the sterling work you have done on here and can see by your post count that you have helped others many times
i felt like i'd upset one of the bigger players
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Hi coldoasis
Thankyou for your apologies ...like others have said it is appreciated & I know that sometimes life generally can be frustrating but I`m glad its all sorted.
Hope you can resolve the issue with your credit file & hope you let us know how you go on ...although it will be a very, very long time before I need (or even want) to go anywhere near any kind of credit ever again (EVER!!!)
BTW I noticed you only joined in Feb09 so welcome to the mad house!!!
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lets have a group Hug
we all feel like screaming when we don't seem to be getting anywhere
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Takes a big person to appologise:T,thankyou.Dx
This forum has helped me immensely. There is an emotional dimension to our situations that most of us have to cope with too. For a lot of us that dimension is as large as the problem itself. The posters that take it all on and cope remarkably well, like you, are fairly rare.
One of the things that make this board stand out is the humanity that people show to others on it. If that means "soppy" e-hugs then so be it. I don't see them like that, but I appreciate that some others do.
I thank you for you apology. Not just because it took some guts to do, but because it shows that you are human too.
ATB
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well i have to admit that im really surprised to see your apology as i assumed by your post that you were one of those ignorant ,rude people that enjoys putting people down even when they have hit rock bottom.
it takes alot to apologise and its great that you have.thankyou.
i can now see that you are actually a decent person .lets just hope that others can accept it and move on and forget about it.i wish you all the best.:D0 -
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