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A Payment a Day Part 3

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  • Fag_ash_lil
    Fag_ash_lil Posts: 5,150 Forumite
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    Glad it's not just me whose like that then! It always feels like just when you think you've got a little bit of spare cash something always crops up to grab it out of your hands! Think it's cos OH is off and he gets so resentful that I'm skint and can't do much which makes me feel worse! and some of the comments he makes really upset me like yes I know I've been stupid with money in the past I don't need him to tell me that!! :mad: and his attitude is well why should he pay for me? when I'm not on much less than he is! Cos of my debts tho I have a lot less than him in my pocket and he only needs to feed himself where as I have 3 big lads to feed plus him when he stays here! yes I can see it from his point of view just wish he could see it from mine!
    Am working Mon and Thurs couldn't get that off cos one of the other girls is off then, it's only a small office so boss gets peed off if too many are off at the same time!
    don't know what we're going to do lol probably argue most of the week like we have this weekend! :rolleyes:

    Are you sure that he's not related to my ex ? :rotfl: ....
    My ex O'H never had any debts when i 1st met him 10 years or so ago .... But was as " tight as ar*e'oles ! .... But though circumstances etc he now has huge debts ..... and at one point muggins here was helping him pay towards his debts while i just keeping mine " ticking over " .... At one time when he had a large sum of money he cleared his debts but never once offered to help with mine ! .... Anyway i won't go into details but his debts are very high again ..... It's too involved really to be able to explain it all on here ....
    But to cut a long story short ....I always helped him out .... but he has never once helped me .... Well anyway he is now my EX .....
    Am not sure if that all makes sense ! :confused:

    terri x
    " When I'm good I'm very good , but when I'm bad I'm better " ~ Mae West ..
  • Fag_ash_lil
    Fag_ash_lil Posts: 5,150 Forumite
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    Nite nite Green .... nice chatting to you ....again !

    goodnight.gif ...

    terri x
    " When I'm good I'm very good , but when I'm bad I'm better " ~ Mae West ..
  • Greenbynature
    Greenbynature Posts: 2,562 Forumite
    Are you sure that he's not related to my ex ? :rotfl: ....
    My ex O'H never had any debts when i 1st met him 10 years or so ago .... But was as " tight as ar*e'oles ! .... But though circumstances etc he now has huge debts ..... and at one point muggins here was helping him pay towards his debts and i just keeping mine " ticking over " .... At one time when he had a large sum of money he cleared his debts but never once offered to help with mine ! .... Anyway i won't go into details but his debts are very high again ..... It's too involved reaaly to be able to explain it all on here ....
    But to cut a long story short ....I always helped him out .... but he has never once helped me .... Hence the now EX .....
    Am not sure if that all makes sense ! :confused:

    terri x
    Lol yes it makes sense to me!!! Well at least you had the sense to make him an EX!!!! :D I think what gets to me the most is I've always been generous with family and friends etc and now I feel like a right tightar5e all the time especially having to say no to the kids!
    Debt @ LBM - £25,722 Debt now - £11,811 DFD - April 2012 :eek: :eek:
    Payment a day challenge - 8/8/08 - £8669.73:jISA - £127.07
    Sealed Pot Challenge #283 £489.50 for 2009//£353 for 2010
    Stopped smoking 1/11/2010 - money saved so far:£515:D
  • Greenbynature
    Greenbynature Posts: 2,562 Forumite
    Nite Terri hope I haven't depressed you too much talking about our debt and stuff you always seem so cheerful where as I feel like I'm always moaning!
    Debt @ LBM - £25,722 Debt now - £11,811 DFD - April 2012 :eek: :eek:
    Payment a day challenge - 8/8/08 - £8669.73:jISA - £127.07
    Sealed Pot Challenge #283 £489.50 for 2009//£353 for 2010
    Stopped smoking 1/11/2010 - money saved so far:£515:D
  • PigginSkint
    PigginSkint Posts: 2,706 Forumite
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    Hi Piggin ...

    Shocking news ! ....

    We will all have to go onto " facebook " or " Twitter " for the weekend ....

    terri x

    I am already on facebook but it means I would have to surrender my anonymity! Mind you, you would all get chance to see a photo of OH so when he is rich (I wish!) and famous you can all say 'I know him!!!' :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    PigginSkint's debt free diary
    DFW Nerd 1049 Amazon Sellers Club member 54
    Total mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £14090.77 (Last payment: September 2021)
    LTSB Loan 30/4/17 £6633.71 (reduction by 48%)
    Total credit cards: 30/4/17 £25971.91 :eek:
    Total non-mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £32876.49 :eek:
  • OMG!!! I never even noticed the Forum Notice at the top of the page:eek: :eek: :eek: My vote is for Facebook, as I'm already there! :D And there are quite a few MSE 'pages'
    'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde
  • PigginSkint
    PigginSkint Posts: 2,706 Forumite
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    Hi Piggin lol scary eh?? :rotfl: :eek:

    Yeah -awful! Just the thought of it is enough to make me twitch! bitenails.gif

    By the way, big dodgy hugs! :grouphug:
    PigginSkint's debt free diary
    DFW Nerd 1049 Amazon Sellers Club member 54
    Total mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £14090.77 (Last payment: September 2021)
    LTSB Loan 30/4/17 £6633.71 (reduction by 48%)
    Total credit cards: 30/4/17 £25971.91 :eek:
    Total non-mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £32876.49 :eek:
  • Fag_ash_lil
    Fag_ash_lil Posts: 5,150 Forumite
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    Nite Terri hope I haven't depressed you too much talking about our debt and stuff you always seem so cheerful where as I feel like I'm always moaning!

    No you haven't depressed me at all .... and no , you are not always moaning !
    Nite nite and sweet dreams th003.jpg ! ...

    terri x kiss-1.gif
    " When I'm good I'm very good , but when I'm bad I'm better " ~ Mae West ..
  • Fag_ash_lil
    Fag_ash_lil Posts: 5,150 Forumite
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    Piggin and Sarah ....

    So ..... you reckon " Facebook " then rather than " Twitter " ?

    terri x
    " When I'm good I'm very good , but when I'm bad I'm better " ~ Mae West ..
  • PigginSkint
    PigginSkint Posts: 2,706 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Night night Green!
    PigginSkint's debt free diary
    DFW Nerd 1049 Amazon Sellers Club member 54
    Total mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £14090.77 (Last payment: September 2021)
    LTSB Loan 30/4/17 £6633.71 (reduction by 48%)
    Total credit cards: 30/4/17 £25971.91 :eek:
    Total non-mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £32876.49 :eek:
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