Debts in the City. A Modern Girls Guide to Life in 2009. My story.

tasha-debt

Ruby Slipper: If he carries on and you start to feel very harrased start keeping copies of all emails etc and tell him if he does not leave you alone you will take out an injuntion against him (harsh I know but keep it in your mind incase you start to feel very harrased and threatend by him).
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catherine_h_2

Thanks Tasha.....you are the Muffin Goddess

Blondie - I missed the bit about your Nan, sorry to hear about her fall. Plenty of cake should help her recover:D

I'm sooo jealous of all you dying your hair, never been able to dye mine...not properly anyway, I can go various shades of blonde but thats as exciting as it gets for me:rolleyes: Would love to have jet black hair...............why do we always want what we cant have????
If I had a choice I'd be 5'10", size 10, jet black hair and big knockers:rotfl:

rubyslipper

tasha-debt wrote: »

Ruby Slipper: If he carries on and you start to feel very harrased start keeping copies of all emails etc and tell him if he does not leave you alone you will take out an injuntion against him (harsh I know but keep it in your mind incase you start to feel very harrased and threatend by him).
xxx

Thanks Tasha - very good idea. I am keeping all the emails, even the early ones where he seems to be quite calm and accepting of the situation. I hope it doesn't get as far as an injunction but he's had mental and emotional problems for a few years now and it seems to have got worse lately so not sure how logical he is at the moment.

One of those times in life where you wish you had a remote and could press fast forward!

xx

rosered1963

rubyslipper wrote: »

Thank you rosered! Well I changed my mobile after about a week - my dad had enough of the sort of texts I was getting so bought me a really cheap little Tesco (!) mobile which I've been using ever since. I have blocked him on Facebook and could change my email address although I'd rather not have to. I have tried ignoring him but unfortunately that just seems to make him angry - according to his best friend he is convinced everything is my fault and he's blameless (he's SO not). Anyway, I'm hoping if I can say once and for all please leave me alone it'll get through. Gah!! :mad:

Am currently entertaining thoughts of ditching big scary London and it's associated madness and legging it off to a country idyll to work in a remote pub under an assumed name...

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I actually did that many years ago to escape a control freak nutcase XBF!

Sorry to hear about that though - can't men sometimes be a total MARE

tasha-debt

Catherine H: Why cant you dye your hair?

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Muffin Goddess: I like it. lol:rotfl:

catherine_h_2

My hair is ridiculously light blonde and treats any colour as though I've bleached it before putting a colour on it! Plus my hairdresser would kill me:rolleyes:

I tried years ago, managed to talk hairdresser into it and she warned me all along(I'm a stubborn b*tch) what'd happen..... I wanted a lovely warm red/brown colour and it ended up a startling shade of pink (like my hairdresser said it would!) :rotfl: That'll teach me! Was supposed to be a wash in wash out kinda thing too, took me 4months of washing my hair nearly everyday til it came out:p Mum wasn't too happy either;)

On the plus side....I'll never go grey:D

ebonylight

I have blonde highlights which I can't afford to keep up..I've bought the dye to go back to dark brown (my natural colour) but am terrified to do it myself in case it goes blotchy :rotfl:

I would absolutely love blonde hair but its just too dark to get away with it - I'd have roots within hours!!

Ruby that's a bit rubbish about your ex boyf. Mine was a gem when we split up. If anything I WANTED more of a reaction heh heh. Hope you get it sorted - don't put yourself in any danger, make sure if it starts to get extreme you get help right away

laura2481

catherine_h wrote: »

I'm sooo jealous of all you dying your hair, never been able to dye mine...not properly anyway, I can go various shades of blonde but thats as exciting as it gets for me:rolleyes:

I too have issue with dying my hair- I have light reddish-brown hair but I can dye it any colour I want as long as it's a shade of red! I apparently have too much natural red pigment or something I tried blonde once- it went orange and I had to dye it back the next day:rotfl: I tried black- it came out dark red, I tried brown- you guessed it, it came out red. I tried red and it came out very red (but faded really quick) so I've given up now and have stuck to my natural colour for a while

laura2481

Also, I have found this site where you post you pic up and people guess how old you are and people think I'm 24 :dance: (almost 4 years younger than I am!) You also guess onther peoples ages but I'm rubbish usually years out http://ageproject.specialsnowflake.com/

laura2481

Actually, just checked and only one person has voted on my pic so far but at least one person thinks I look younger than I am!