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Help/advice needed for a newly married friend!

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  • margaretclare
    margaretclare Posts: 10,789 Forumite
    'Being seen driving around with a woman' may not of itself mean very much, as he is 'visiting family'.

    The rest of it stinks, however! The lack of trust between them - 'trust and respect' according to my DH is the bedrock of any relationship, and it works both ways.

    Why did she 'seem to be the luckiest person alive'? Why did he go abroad without her - if she hadn't met his family, didn't he want to introduce her to them? Why....a lot of whys.
    [FONT=Times New Roman, serif]Æ[/FONT]r ic wisdom funde, [FONT=Times New Roman, serif]æ[/FONT]r wear[FONT=Times New Roman, serif]ð[/FONT] ic eald.
    Before I found wisdom, I became old.
  • well if shes doudting them somethings going on what about "a nice romantic surprise" trip to where he goes
  • 'Being seen driving around with a woman' may not of itself mean very much, as he is 'visiting family'.

    The rest of it stinks, however! The lack of trust between them - 'trust and respect' according to my DH is the bedrock of any relationship, and it works both ways.

    Why did she 'seem to be the luckiest person alive'? Why did he go abroad without her - if she hadn't met his family, didn't he want to introduce her to them? Why....a lot of whys.

    Well we envied her because they seemed to be the most loving and romantic couple we had seen.....he would shower her with gifts, take her on holidays and so on. He proposed after 3 months and they were married within the next 3 months! He appeared to be very caring. He didn't take her on holiday as he was going away on family business.....and she couldn't take time off from work.

    Thanks everyone for your suggestions and tips I wish there was something I could do......I do my best to ring her up and visit etc. So, we will have to wait till he returns she will confront him and see what happens thereafter!
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