Loan From Your Kids?

lifesuckssometimes

I feel the OP has already got their sticky fingers on the money, and may be trying to make themselves feel they are justified in stealing their child's money..

eco

felt I had to post, my mum left her grandkids some money when she died, I save the bank books and my sis asks for them if she has to go get them updated. This is so the money can't be used by the parents for 'toys' my brother tried using this exscuse, for his son, told him to save up and buy them my nephew wasn't having the money till he was 18, in hindsight we did the right thing.

The OP is disgusting if she feel the need to rob her only child, with exscuses like her daughter paying rent, the moneys for her child plain and simple, it's STEALING.

CHR15

g4fne wrote: »

Assuming you are genuine & you have your childs best interest at heart,.

You are crazy:T :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::T

You know what they say about assumption!!

The opening post was one of "Whoopie, I have some money near me, how can I get my grubby mits on it??"

Bewilders me why people would stoop to the OP's level and try to help them. _pale_

g4fne

CHR15 wrote: »

You are crazy:T :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::T

You know what they say about assumption!!

The opening post was one of "Whoopie, I have some money near me, how can I get my grubby mits on it??"

Bewilders me why people would stoop to the OP's level and try to help them. _pale_

Bewilders why people are so quick to judge ;)

Rachel83

This thread makes me so sad!

Trying to justify taking your daughters money or the good of the family.... and talk of charging her rent or something along those lines, Jeez I hope this is a troll thread!!

Mr.Mulla

I don't think it is right for you to use your child's money. You are her trustee. You can only use that for emergency purposes, and not for her expenses. You should be supporting her because you are her parents, right?

Plus charging your child of rent? That's crazy. Even if you're going to pay her back with interest, that is not right.

You should seek an advice from a legal person. They should be able to give you some expert advice. For the meantime, please don't use her money, it's not yours.

louisemarie

How can you face yourself in the mirror?

I cannot understand either your motives nor your morals(or lack of them)

Do you sleep at night?

Yes, this is a money saving site but money at any cost regardless of the consequences?
I would rather be pennyless than get my grubby mitts on cahs in such circumstances.
Poor Daughter(she will be if you put your " master plan" into action).
Is money really that important to you?

I pity you. I truly do.

steadynerve

Thanks for the replies.
Yes as bitter and twisted indicated - a six year (she is now 7) old cannot give consent. So the option of a legal document loaning the money cannot work. This is why i think the only legal option is legally taking the money for expenses.

Once a gift is made it becones the childs money so i dont think its possible for the donor to change there mind later and say oh its for the parent. Unless there really was a nistake to start wtih ehich thre is't.

I'm bewginning to think its legally ok to taje the money as long as it is spent on the chid. As when people are given birthday money for a child they dont have to save it for ever they can spend it toys or shoes etc as some posters have mentioned.

So if toys and clothers are ok, i presum food and even rent are probably ok as well? As when older children give housekeeping this money presumably covers food and housing costs as well.

Kavanne

it's NOT 'ok'.

it's morally wrong and I continue to be disgusted by you.

heating-eng

steadynerve wrote: »

Thanks for the replies.
Yes as bitter and twisted indicated - a six year (she is now 7) old cannot give consent. So the option of a legal document loaning the money cannot work. This is why i think the only legal option is legally taking the money for expenses.

Once a gift is made it becones the childs money so i dont think its possible for the donor to change there mind later and say oh its for the parent. Unless there really was a nistake to start wtih ehich thre is't.

I'm bewginning to think its legally ok to taje the money as long as it is spent on the chid. As when people are given birthday money for a child they dont have to save it for ever they can spend it toys or shoes etc as some posters have mentioned.

So if toys and clothers are ok, i presum food and even rent are probably ok as well? As when older children give housekeeping this money presumably covers food and housing costs as well.

this has got to be a wind up ... charge your 7 year old for food and rent ..your having a laugh ...