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fizzel81

krisskross wrote: »

Bet no one on income support admits to a private arrangement

i told them and they saw bank staements as i put above how much my private arrangement was, you really have it in for single parents dont you, were not all liers and cheats.

and for the recrod all mine is put into my account via transfer from his you see he doesnt live on the doorstep so to spek and go's weeks without seeing the kids

maybe you should keep some of your comments to yourself

Zara33

fizzel81 wrote: »

i told them and they saw bank staements as i put above how much my private arrangement was, you really have it in for single parents dont you, were not all liers and cheats.

and for the recrod all mine is put into my account via transfer from his you see he doesnt live on the doorstep so to spek and go's weeks without seeing the kids

maybe you should keep some of your comments to yourself

Oh come on Kriss didn't say evey single parent would not declare it...you have to admit if the temptation is there then some will use this to their advantage.

davenkirst

krisskross wrote: »

We shall see. Or rather we won't because no one will know will they?

BTW I have no issues at all with lone parents being supported when children have been conceived in a stable relationship. I do have a problem, which I freely admit, with women having children they are totally unable to support as a career and lifestyle choice.

Im not sure if thats a dig at me personally ?? But if you knew my circumstances you would have left that comment out of that post.. Both my children were conceived whilst ina stable relationship!!!!!!! Its just the circumstances with my2nd is a very difficult one.!!!!

buckethead_2

and as soon as the relationship has gone pear shaped they all want to a free house, free money and wants us all to feel sorry for them..well all I can say is the best thing to do would be to get a job

mandi

buckethead wrote: »

and as soon as the relationship has gone pear shaped they all want to a free house, free money and wants us all to feel sorry for them..well all I can say is the best thing to do would be to get a job

Well thats an origional post , got anything constructive to say , nah dont bother.

None of the Single mums have ever worked, or paid into the system , .. have they :rolleyes: .

Damzel_In_Distress

krisskross wrote: »

Bet no one on income support admits to a private arrangement

I do,as ive said a few times on other threads/posts :rolleyes: cause like ive said,its not really worth taking the risk-if found out,you only end up with a big bill eventually so seems rather pointless lieing to me.

Baby was also conceived whilst in a stable long term relationship,and by long term i dont mean months i mean years an years-just the pratt left in my ninth month cause he suddenly "got scared and didnt know what to do and felt he couldnt cope with the stress of what was about to happen and he would no longer have a life"...those were his actual words!! ...

Loopy_Girl

Zara33 wrote: »

Oh come on Kriss didn't say evey single parent would not declare it...you have to admit if the temptation is there then some will use this to their advantage.

I agree. But KK actually said "I bet no one on income support admits to a private arrangement"

I think the pertinant words here you are looking for are you saying some and her saying no one. There's a huge difference and if she had said some, like you did, then I certainly wouldn't have commented and I agree that there will be some.

fizzel81

Zara33 wrote: »

Oh come on Kriss didn't say evey single parent would not declare it...you have to admit if the temptation is there then some will use this to their advantage.

Originally Posted by krisskross
Bet no one on income support admits to a private arrangement there we go

but some of us do declare it, but yes i do agree with you that not all would declare whats being givn to them

jennie09

krisskross wrote: »

Bet no one on income support admits to a private arrangement

:eek: How can you say that, you dont know peoples circumstances, god the sarcasm in this quoted post is shocking, i can just see you now sitting there with a scowl on your face as you say it, my impression of you was right from the start, thinking you can look down your nose at people :rolleyes:

krisskross

jennie09 wrote: »

:eek: How can you say that, you dont know peoples circumstances, god the sarcasm in this quoted post is shocking, i can just see you now sitting there with a scowl on your face as you say it, my impression of you was right from the start, thinking you can look down your nose at people :rolleyes:

You are quite honestly a daft woman. Doubt if you would recognise sarcasm if it bit you on the bum.

Edit: To take out a word that I am sure Jennie would have deemed offensive, sarcastic, too erudite. Silly woman seems intent on stirring up trouble everywhere she goes on the boards.