Update

angel182

Thank you for the email it was lovely.

I am still breaking my heart... he is so cold, i asked him if he cares for me he said not in a loving way but is concerned about me!!?? he is not the person i know its like a stranger?? one minute i get sensible then i cry. i have just had a good cry and the pain inside is awful...... will i ever be happy again

Angel xx

tigerfeet2006

Yes you will be sweet. It will take time and a lot of heartache but it does get better.

When my DH left me after 7 years of marriage I was heartbroken. I didn't know there was anything wrong in the marriage. It turned out he was having an affair with my friend and the only one who didn't know was me. I thought would never recover, he was my first love, my world.

When I was the wrong side of 30 I met and married a wonderful man, who is an absolute angel. We have been together nearly 15 years and have 3 lovely children.

So the moral of this story is there is hope for everyone.

Sending you lots of hugs.

kezza90

I think this is better therapy than what i am getting at my councillor!!

Angel, it will get easier for you, I know that doesnt ease the pain at the moment but it is very true!

My house with my ex gets repossessed on Monday and for me that is the closure i need, I am not planning on going to court so i wont need to see him which is a good thing.

You will be happy again and this time you will be happy as a whole without being part of a couple, you will find out more things about yourself just like you are finding out things about your ex partner. Try to stay positive and dont think too much about the past, its not productive, you have so many things to look forward to....moving into a new place, being debt free!!

I'm actually going speed dating in a couple of weeks time, I'm not ready to meet anyone but I thought it would get me out of the house and it could be a good laugh. I never thought in May that i'd be doing this and that after 10 years I am starting again but I have to believe everything happens for a reason xxx

startagain_2

Me too kezza - I am actually seeing my councellor/psychologist in 2 hours time after a break of 1 month - has he got some catching up to do..... !!

I have joined a social club - one step at a time with a book club meeting next week and then a dinner at the end of the month. I think I shall run a mile though if a man tries to talk to me!
I think I had better wear a warning sign..... lol

SA

angel182

can anyone tell me how to delete theses threads