Boxing Day...more turkey anyone!!

sammy115

spud30 wrote: »

I'm much better than I used to be. i put the improvement down to working with children :rotfl: :rotfl:

children scare me.....well any ones other than me own....I threatened to slap DD2 today and she said 'go on then':eek:

Was sorely tempted........

Bunnyinthelights

*Bunny wonders the same as Sar*

sammy115

immoral_angeluk wrote: »

BB I've said it before....

and I'll say it again....


WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM!??

:grouphug:

^^^^^^^^^what she said BB, seriously - why??????

Burlesque_Babe

I know, I know.......sigh......but it will happen 1 day, but it's just the journey of 'getting there' really, difficult to explain. I honestly don't know why we are together.

Gemmzie

Evening, I've been very naughty today but I don't care Oops

LouiseJ

BB he is sapping your positive energy every day if anything was going to make a positive impact in your life then getting rid of him should be top of your list..............

Although I know it must be difficult Hun xxxx

sallyx

I think you are very nearly there BB, have seen a defininate change in your attitute to him over the last couple of weeks....it won't be long until you realise you are worth more xx

Sea78

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

I know, I know.......sigh......but it will happen 1 day, but it's just the journey of 'getting there' really, difficult to explain. I honestly don't know why we are together.

I can really understand this - it took me 2 years to actually do the deed of ending things with my husband, and then another 6 mths to actually get him out the house, so it's hard- he's been gone 2 days and I wonder if I really have done the right thing sometimes.

Burlesque_Babe

well, this time last year, I remember wondering whether to not ask him to put the tree and decs. back up in the loft. I thought - how will I get them back down again in November because I don't reckon we will still be together!

Tilli-Tot

BB, I am living a similar thing, I havent seen mine since 3pm yesterday (went to the football today meant he had to stay at friends last night) so ((hug)) to you.

I have realised how much this is draining me and Ive been taking care of his mental health at detriment of my own. I have decided that 2009 is my year, and am here beginning on the path of 'sorting' it

Taking that mental leap of faith is feeling good, I need to do the real thing just need the final push. If you need someone to hold your hand while you jump, take mine, we can go over the edge together :rolleyes: