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Christmas money dilemma!

Hey folkies!! hope thta you have ahd a lovely lovely christmas dinner and are all sat on the sofa stoofed from too much christmas turkey... Righto, advice needed peepys on morally what is the right thing to do here?
I've today received £70 from the folks to put towards a digital SLR camera that i really want to save up for as a me treat sometime in the summer. BUT!! and heres the crux, the 20k challenge is ringing in my ears saying to me "pay a debt! pay a debt! pay a debt!" and it won't blimmin shut up!!!

Morally, mum and dad gave me the money for a camera and that is what, in the passage of time they expect it to be used for so I should bung it in my isa and have done with it!!!

Immorally it would reduce a debt by £70 which in light of the one that i am attacking as if my life depends on it isn't to be sniffed at!!! So, what would you do??? :confused::confused: Help!!!! votes please!!! :)
debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
:heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:

what would you do with christmas money? 82 votes

Use it for what the giver intended you to use it for?
57% 47 votes
pay it off a debt???
42% 35 votes
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  • becky_rtw
    becky_rtw Posts: 8,393 Forumite
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    Hey P - what a toughie!!

    I'd pay off, but then my parents give me money on the basis that I'm free to do what I want with it...think how much sweeter the camera will be when you're debt free and you've saved for it :D
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    Thanks sweetie that was what i was thinking, however there will inevitably be questions in the summer where the camera is if i don't get it!!! eek! Have you had a nice day?
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • happy christmas p! Off the debt for me - you can have the money back later and save yourself some interest in the meantime!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Hey P
    My DH has given me £100 (bless him but silly when we are trying to pay debt off) so I am sort of in the same boat. Do I use it to pay off some debt or use it to buy the garmin I have been lusting over for months??
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,576 Forumite
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    I'm sure they won't care, if they do ask just say you're saving up or something. My bro gave me money and I've decided to use that towards the debt.
    Mortgage OP 2025 £7550/7000
    Mortgage OP 2024 £7700/7000

    Mortgage balance: £34,196

    Money making challenge £78/400

    ”Do what others won’t early in life so you can do what others can’t later in life” (stolen from Gally Girl)
  • becky_rtw
    becky_rtw Posts: 8,393 Forumite
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    Yeah good thanks :D tired now though...hope you a had nice one!

    True - could you not say well I leant it to my firend 'insert friend's name' because they've gone to their brothers wedding and wanted some great photos?? Or you could borrow someone elses for the day?? Or you could be completely honest and say 'well since my CC was costing me a lot in interest I paid it off that instead, but I've started a savings jar for the camera and I'll buy it next year'??
  • becky_rtw
    becky_rtw Posts: 8,393 Forumite
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    Now in Sally's case - Garmin!!!!! Get bidding on ebay :D
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    sooo many people around at christmas!!! thanks for the advice hon, think i've got an idea what to do with it... ;) sally eek to the £100 from OH!! the garmins are ooooh so tempting!!! :)
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    thanks Becky, liking the wedding suggestion!!! :)
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    I would pay off the debt as i bet if you do buy it you will feel guilty after, will be much better having it next Christmas when you could be debt free :)
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
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