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DFW *Daily chat* Wednesday 17th December - Time for Baileys?

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  • Oh, it got better for a week or so-now back to SSDD as the saying goes.

    I am trying to pretend it's ok.
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    pretending only hurts you hunny ....i really feel for you i do ...wish i had a magic hard on wand ...i could sprinkle you with pheramone dust
  • I know, but I don't know what else to do.....


    I could talk about it but apparently there isnt an issue. It's just me...
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • elantan
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    well if its just you(according to whoever) that makes it an issue...it might be an issue he doesnt want to talk about but it is an issue ...he needs to understand where you are coming from and vice versa...can a compromise be reached? do you want to take this p.m ?
  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
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    oh bunny i hate to see you sad, but the very fact that you know it's partly hormonal that makes you feel like this, is good... you have a lot to be thankful for (is there an echo today, i keep saying this) and it's only one aspect of an otherwise postive relationship....

    if you stop viewing this issue as a problem, it'll probably come good soon enough, but the more of an issue you make it, the less he's gonna want to...

    i know mismatched needs is not easy but i think a good relationship is more valuble than a good sex life.... even better if you can have both... but not critical........
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • cat4772
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    I can tell when I would have been visited by Aunt Flo because for a day or two each month I'm a bit sensitive (mood, skin, everything). I had hoped that being pregnant meant no Aunt Flo symptoms for 9 months but alas it has not worked out like that.

    I used to take an evening primrose supplement when I was younger which seemed to help with PMS. It would be strange but I'd have a scary mix of PMS and PMT for a week before Aunt Flos visit so I'm not really complaining at one day every 4 weeks or so!

    Bunny - hugs and I hope aunt flo !!!!!!s of and leaves you alone!
    DFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debt
    :onever attribute anything to malice which can be adequately explained by stupidity, [paranoia or ignorance] - ZTD&[cat]
    :othe thing about unwritten laws is that everyone has to agree to them before they can work - *louise*

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  • Took in the cake I've done for work for the Guess the Weight competition. Grace and finesse is not my 'thing' for decorating cakes - more the 'chuck stuff on and hope it sticks rustic look', it has some mistletoe around the base and some leaves and chocolate scrolls on the top as if it is a kind of woodland scene.

    Get me drunk enough at Manchester and i'll tell you a funny story about it :rotfl:
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • elantan
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    cat is right evening primrose is a good thing to take it helps alot of people...just had my supervisors boss in job no2 on the phone saying he is concerned that ihavnt done my time sheets for last week and this ...i was off sick last week (shows you how much he knows) and i dont start till today this week so i certainly aint going in early to do time sheets ...i tell you some people
  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
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    Took in the cake I've done for work for the Guess the Weight competition. Grace and finesse is not my 'thing' for decorating cakes - more the 'chuck stuff on and hope it sticks rustic look', it has some mistletoe around the base and some leaves and chocolate scrolls on the top as if it is a kind of woodland scene.

    Get me drunk enough at Manchester and i'll tell you a funny story about it :rotfl:


    I'll be sure and do that!!

    I was looking at flights today for Machester... Abz to Manchester, £130ish....

    BB Queen of cheap flights, will you have a look for me... as you are good at finding all the bargains!? please!
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Maz, do you definitely want to fly down? Not sure how much it is from Aberdeen to Edinburgh, but you can quite often get £10 singles from Edin to Manchester on the train. Know it's a long trip though!
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
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