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*Daily chat thread 3rd Dec 2008*

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  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    oh honey i dunno what to say......

    sounds like your employers have been pretty good TBH and if you were to have a conversation similar to your post above, they would provide all the reassurances you need, or maybe offer some kinda solutions... flexitime, parental leave etc.

    maybe somethings gotta give, and it can't be home life, so maybe it needs to be work....

    you can't be all things to all people all the time..... don't put too much pressure on yourself....
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Snaggles wrote: »
    Gahhh please will someone cheer me up, I am having the day from hell.

    ...

    I just keep thinking that they're not going to put up with me messing them about much longer.....but I feel like it's all a bit out of my control, and I'm trying SO hard, but I still keep letting them down.

    Sorry for moaning, got a splitting headache and just feeling generally crappy today.


    Aw Hun, not sure I can cheer you up but have a dodgy hug :grouphug:

    Have you spoken to your manager at work? Its perhaps better to discuss your concerns and know what they are thinking rather than stressing (probably needlessly) about something which is beyond your control. At least that way you aren't creating problems that don't exist and can concentrate on dealing with the issues that do...

    Oh go on then - have a nother dodgy hug :D :grouphug:
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • lauradora
    lauradora Posts: 1,371 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    morning everyone!

    Sounds like most of you need much hugs and kisses :kisses3:

    lttf happy birthday! xxxx

    i am hostage in my bedroom right now got the plasterers in again :j but it means more work in the house!

    its sooo bloody freezing I tried to hang the washing out but got forced back in by the temperature!

    For those of you having a bad day just think about those babies that they separated last night....one of them died this morning.

    Yes my life is very s**t at the minute bit there is always some one worse off. We have our health and our children. Sending blessings to you all xxx:happyhear

    have a good day xxx
    On a mission
  • Awww snags... :( Sending massive hugs your way hun. I hate days like that. :grouphug:
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • rugbymum
    rugbymum Posts: 984 Forumite
    Morning all - just!
    Dodgy hugs to all that need them :grouphug: .
    I'm waiting for DS no2 paediatrician to call back. He's has now been in pain for 5 days. He has an ileal intussusception (no I didn't know either :confused: !) and he is being monitored for Crohns! this in on top of the chest infection he has had for the last couple of weeks!
    The DD had whooping cough and I've been playing nurse for the last 5, going on 6 weeks. As I pointed out to my dad, who would employ me? (he was moaning at me for being poor & not working). On top of all that my back has gone again!
    Sorry for the moan. I'm feeling sorry for myself. :cry:
    LBM:FEB 2008
    MEMBER ABC 2010
  • Ellidee
    Ellidee Posts: 6,216 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hugs for Snaggles & Rugbymum and anyone else who needs one ((((())))) XX
    Nothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task. William James
  • sorry everyone seems to be having such a bad time just now. Big hugs.
    DFW 228 LONG H 68
    DFD 2017 :eek:
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Ooops - i may have upgraded Hubbles' Wii bundle to the deluxe family one with all the controllers etc :o But he'd need to buy the doodahs anyway right:confused: :rolleyes:
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • lol, yeah, actually best played with all the extras. We love ours and have played it loads. Expensive but worth it in our household.

    Has anyone else heard the new Take That album yet? I am in LOVE with track 5, sing sha la la la la la la .....Julie, whats ur problem....
    DFW 228 LONG H 68
    DFD 2017 :eek:
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Take who.....?
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


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