**Daily Chat Thread Mon 1 Dec 08**

daphne_descends

Oh god sorry guys for the lack of paragraphs! I an putting them in but can't see them when I hit post?!Thanks Lou, you are right, actually it's the priviledge of being with someone when you are both commited, you have the right to !!!! them off!Hi itchy nips... need some moisturiser?

LouiseJ

Well welcome to the nut house, we are short of nutters this morning are you a slight nut or a complete nut?????........................I am only a slight one:D

God, daytime telly is pants:rolleyes: trying to find something decent to watch but no luck.

sammy115

itchy_nips wrote: »

i have been without the internet for ages

Have you got yourself sorted now though

sammy115

daphne_descends wrote: »

Thanks Sammy my computer is all weird (I'm at work) I can't see pictures, smilies, avatars, or thanks/quote buttons! Maybe I'm using the internet too much :eek:I do love him and I know that it's just 'stuff' that gets annoying but his attitude sometimes - well it is like I am just a big inconvenience. But then I do feel bad - oh, all this is about is getting out of the house on time in the morning, trivial really, but the way he speaks to me - he is usually a gentlemen and I can be screaming in a fight and he'd still enver insult me personally but today it was just like I was a piece of !!!!. I guess he is stressed - he has a LOT of pressure at work - but I work too, and I'm the only one who gets up with the baby at night, I suppose I just feel unappreciated, a drain, not contributing enough. It's a change of balance when you've got children I suppose.I just bought a small pack of custard creams and a latte to cheer me up

Actually Daph, you have hit the nail on the head...my OH speaks to me like that when he is under stress. I have found lately that when things have calmed down just saying to him that him being under stress does not give him the right to talk to me like !!!! works...

And yes it comes with the territory of small babies!

Bunnyinthelights

Welcome back Itchy! (LOVE the name, lol!)

DD-I too feel like that with my DH. I love him, respect him, like him and then want to SHAKE him for being so utterly pedantic sometimes-he also never stops and rests and it exhausts me...I tried to be without him and I realised I was still with him, in my heart but just in a different house. Children can cause an enormous amount of strain in even the strongest relationship and i've found the most important thing is to spend time together as a couple again. You need to re-connect and not be 'mom and dad' but friends and lovers again (THAT is the difficult bit) Don't despair, we all feel like you do. Trust me xxxxxx

Morning Squirrely! How are my lovely friend?

sammy115

itchy_nips wrote: »

for the moment yes:cool:

Yay :j for now:mad:

sammy115

Yeah sorry squizz - morning!

Morning bunster......

sammy115

itchy_nips wrote: »

i am actually perfectly sensible:A

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Bunnyinthelights

Louise, at least you dont have to watch Peppa Pig and Handy Manny on a loop...

sammy115

LouiseJ wrote: »

Well welcome to the nut house, we are short of nutters this morning are you a slight nut or a complete nut?????........................I am only a slight one:D

God, daytime telly is pants:rolleyes: trying to find something decent to watch but no luck.

Why - whats wrong with Jezza kyle:rotfl: