Troll alert!

paddy's_mum

It might be more accurate to say watch out for the forum fantasist from Cornwall since it would be harsh to call someone an outright bl**dy liar, wouldn't it?

Staciep88 aka Penpop - why don't you stop all this two faced trickery towards people who have done you no harm but given freely of their thoughts, help and advice? Do you really think that most of those people are so thick, so lacking in mental capacity, so lacking in memory, so unable to add two and two properly that they cannot work out that you are one and the same person, however loudly you shout that there is no connection. It's you who has lost track of what you wrote not we who have poor memoriesof what we read.

Not true? .. well, other forum members need spend only a few minutes reading all Penpop's posts, then some of Stacie's thread entitled Not so happy Relationship to suss out that there is some utterly barefaced deceit going on here and the whole situation has the stink of manipulation. Perhaps you'd like to read the definition of manipulative that appears in my dictionary - "characterised by unscrupulous exploitation of a situation, person etc for one's own ends".

What your ends are, I have no idea but I do think that you are yourself an abuser - an abuser of other peoples' kindness and concern, their willingness to give their time to a stranger and her problems and who have taken your posts as straightforward and truthful. You couldn't even be honest enough to reveal that you are pregnant, could you? That simple fact explains without a single further word why you are rushing back to your OH on December 20th despite his violence towards you.

You are living in a fantasy world if you think we believe that there are two 19 year old Cornish girls, both of whom were living in the second home belonging to her parents, both of whom worked for her parents company, both of whom have their birthday over Christmas .. the list goes on and on, through income, cars, debt, who works and who doesn't, but I can't be bothered any more. All I know is that your duplicity may have made it harder for someone genuine who follows you to get the whole hearted support they may need and all because some silly, spoilt, attention-seeking, hypocritical little cheat decided this was a fun way to pass an evening and has perhaps left genuine responders wary of being made to look like fools again in the future.

You have treated responders with utter contempt for your own strange reasons and it is that aspect that has made me so angry. What a laugh you must have been having as people bared their deepest secrets in the hope that you might listen and think. Oh, you darling girl, what a hoot! Are you sure it isn't counselling of another sort you should be seeking, perhaps it would be listed on the clinic wall as "How to escape your Walter Mitty Syndrome".

I make no apologies whatever for this post. I just invite anyone else to read the relevent threads and then tell me that two completely unknown to each other, unrelated girls share 99% of their lives in common. If this post causes me to be banned, so be it but at least the alarm will have been raised.

Finally, you two totally unconnected Cornish girls, guess what I found in my thesaurus - you'll like this, you really will.

cupboard love, crocodile tears, Judas kiss, Cornish hug. Appropriate, huh?

Noctu

I understand your frustrations but couldn't this have been kept in PM?

Zazen999

There's many many trolls on here and I'd still rather Stacey was able to come here for any assistance, if her venture with her OH does go wrong again.

I'd feel much much worse if she couldn't. If people want to have Alter Egos, then y'know...that's their choice - we're all adults.

It's a very emotive subject for alot of us, but it's Stacey's life, let her live it.

Zara33

:rotfl: :rotfl: Linkie please too lazy to dig myself.

SecretSquirrel88

Isnt this the girl who was building a house at her OH parents, and then putting a caravan at her OH place in a field?? I cannot be bothered to look back over the posts but I'm sure I remember reading that...

kingfisher1961

I haven't posted on Stacie's thread but have followed it, but now reading Penpops posts (can't do links but the last one is "Christmas - nightmare" ) I am sure they are one person. Like a lot of people I was quite worried but now I don't know what to believe.

SecretSquirrel88

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=1314235 that link should work

that would explain about her sister - after reading over the stacie post it says about her sister not liking her OH. Never the less maybe she has a reason for doing this?

love_lifer

i always smelt a rat, dont know why, with the not so happy stuff. some people however are too ready to jump in and accept only 1 side of a story. there are always at least 2. we all do well to remember that with this type of post

Emmzi

ooh, sock puppets!

well, I'd say she's a mixed up kid who doesn't know how to present the situation for the best and is asking for the advice she knows she willk get but then doesn't know how to handle using it.

I think the post from the women's aid lady on Stacie's thread has been the most useful and whatever games Stacie has to play to give herself a voice at the moment aren't going to stress me. I'm not the pregnant one in an abusive relationship with debt worries. I can't say what that would do to my head.

I just hope she heeds that one bit of advice the most - talk to women's aid, have a bloody good listen with an open mind.

Savvy_Sue

Please remember to be nice to all moneysavers, even the mixed up fantasists.

Meanwhile I have asked abuse to take a look at this thread.

Thank you.