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Hello! Newbie!

Hi Everyone :hello:

I just wanted to say i think you are all fab and have inspired me!

i have been a lurker since August and i'm going public!

Bit about myself, i'm 29 and i have a small 2 bedroom house that i'm very proud of as i bought it young before the prices went up and i worked several jobs to buy it and have managed to hold on to it thru many ups and downs over the last few years. I came out of a very destructive 4 year relationship about June and finally sat down and looked at my finances and realised after 4 years of the Ex sponging off me as he was extremely work-shy and the fact i'm an emotional spender and unfortunatley he was an emotional bully i was in a lot of debt, but, in August i found you lovely people and started to use idea's i read about on here.

I hadn't really tracked my progress until i wrote it all down this week and i was thrilled i think i had started to feel a bit dispondent! I wanted to have my own diary as writing down how well i'd done in 3 months gave me such a positive push I want to keep it up so when i'm feeling like slipping i can see how well i've done and hopefully that will keep me going!

So hello everyone :T
TOTAL: (1.9.2008) £[strike]20,971.00[/strike] (02.12.10)£11,006.07
£9,262.93 Paid off (Since LBM) :D
Debt Free Date [strike]2021[/strike] 2015
Savings £100 Dec NSD 11/20, Sealed pot challenger 1043
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  • Well done you for being so brave...
    Here you will find plenty of help so never dispair
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    :hello: Hello

    you've done a pretty good job already getting the debts down already
    well done:T

    if you start to slip you can always get a hand up or a kick up the butt from the great people on here:o
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • Thank you Numpty Monkey and Ambershadow!

    Its all down to you guys really i am amazed at how clever with money you have all become

    ...just had some great news, my mortgage went down this month so i over paid even more off my debt!

    This is the first time in a long time i feel in control and on top of things
    TOTAL: (1.9.2008) £[strike]20,971.00[/strike] (02.12.10)£11,006.07
    £9,262.93 Paid off (Since LBM) :D
    Debt Free Date [strike]2021[/strike] 2015
    Savings £100 Dec NSD 11/20, Sealed pot challenger 1043
    :xmassign:
  • Hello and welcome! As said above you look like you are already doing great! keep up the great work x
    Credit Cards at 0% £958.00
    Credit Card at 19.9% £2305.65
    Total Debt: [strike]£6290.76[/strike] £3263.65
    DFD: Dec 09
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    you've made a great start, and obviously are not afraid of hard work to get where you need to be.

    Welcome aboard!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • Thank you every one!

    Just signed up to £20k by Xmas 2009 - if i do it i might end up with enough extra for a ski Trip the following year :-)

    and NDS gone for 10 days as I have a few xmas lunches/dinners out with work all paid for YEEHA! and mums doing xmas dinner so i've covered 5 days already because i wont need to buy lunch or Dinner :-)
    TOTAL: (1.9.2008) £[strike]20,971.00[/strike] (02.12.10)£11,006.07
    £9,262.93 Paid off (Since LBM) :D
    Debt Free Date [strike]2021[/strike] 2015
    Savings £100 Dec NSD 11/20, Sealed pot challenger 1043
    :xmassign:
  • you have made a great start and great news about your mortgage going down. good luck
    Use up toiletries in 2020. 88
    Make £2020 in 2020. No 85. £1808.05/£2020
  • Wow 20k by next christmas. Blimey. In fact I misread it and thought it was this christmas-lol. Now that would be amazing.
    Best of Luck with it - mind you it doesn't sound like you need any.
    df
    Making my money go further with MSE :j
    How much can I save in 2012 challenge
    75/1200 :eek:
  • its all thanks to you guys really i've tried the odd tip i've found on here, payment a day, NSD, Ebay, Clicks and it really works! if you had said to me 3 months ago i would have paid this much off i would have thought you were living in a dream world.

    it has totally made me re-think the way i look at money it helps now im just supporting myself of course but i don't let money slip through my fingers anymore - i make every penny count :-)
    TOTAL: (1.9.2008) £[strike]20,971.00[/strike] (02.12.10)£11,006.07
    £9,262.93 Paid off (Since LBM) :D
    Debt Free Date [strike]2021[/strike] 2015
    Savings £100 Dec NSD 11/20, Sealed pot challenger 1043
    :xmassign:
  • Already said Hi on on the Small DFW Things Thread but just wanted to say think its great you have such a fantastic attitude. Good luck to you, and keep coming on to the Small Things thread where we'll keep you on the straight and narrow (and give you a laugh into the bargain!!!)

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
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