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My 13 Year old child received a debt letter

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  • ajaney
    ajaney Posts: 250 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts
    FWIW I think that when children are playing games online trading 'virtual' furniture, it would not be outside the realm of possibility that the child thought that paypal was a 'virtual' bank account of sorts - even the name is a bit childlike if you think about it!

    I think the OP got a bit of a rough ride on here before we knew the facts. Now I know what has happened, i think Habbo & Paypal are in the wrong.
    SOA = Statement of Affairs (to find a SOA Calculator, google 'make sense of cards' & click on calculators tab > Statement of Affairs)
  • GeorgeUK
    GeorgeUK Posts: 7,737 Forumite
    I think it's right for kids to be held accountable as they know what right and wrong are at that age. They may not fully understand the consequences of their actions, but they should know if they're being bad or good.

    It's strangely apt that the age is younger in Scotland - when i was in Primary school in Paisley there were kids we knew that carried knives when not in school. That's about the right age.

    I don't however think you can put the onus on the parents. Who actually brings up the children - parents are at work and come home, but where do the the children spend most of the day? If the discipline in schools and lack of respect is allowed to deteriorate, i hate to think of some of the little angels that will be coming along soon.
    After falling off the gambling wagon (twice): £33,600 (24,000+ 9,600) - Original CC Debt: £7,885.91

    Dad Gift 6k ¦ Savings & Inv Tst: £2,500
    Loan 10k: £0 ¦ Dad 5.5k: £2,270 ¦ LTSB: £0 ¦ RBS: £0 ¦ Virgin £0 ¦ Egg £0

    Total Owed: £2,270 (+6k) 11/08/2011
  • This week I received a demand on behalf of Paypal from Intrum Justitia,
    last year I had the same from another collection agency Robinson Way & Company Ltd, of Salford Quays, Manchester, as well as from another comany whose name escapes me, but where also of Salford Quays, Manchester.

    The main things that these have in common is that they all are claiming differing amount, from differing named accounts,(although similar to my name), and mainly although I have looked at Paypal and filled in all my details, I never actually activated an account. I have googled Rob' Way & Co Ltd. and have found that they seem to make a habit of this.

    Are there any letter templates that can stop these sometimes harsh and in my opinion threatening demands.
  • bandraoi wrote: »
    Criminal Law

    Until you're 18, you can't partake of civil law. You can't enter into complex contracts except in very limited circumstances which is why you can't buy a house, own property or indeed vote.
    Children under 18, can own property, they could be left it in a will for example.
    I have just passed (yay) my law class today and we got told this when we done contract law.
  • mrcow
    mrcow Posts: 15,170 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker

    Are there any letter templates that can stop these sometimes harsh and in my opinion threatening demands.

    In short, yes there are as I've seen them on here, but I'm not too sure where to find them. Are you sure that they are all chasing the same "debt"? You need to get to the bottom of where this debt has arisen from.Your best bet would be to start a new thread on the "Debt Free Wannbe" boards and ask the question again as your post's at risk of getting a little lost on this thread.
    "One day I realised that when you are lying in your grave, it's no good saying, "I was too shy, too frightened."
    Because by then you've blown your chances. That's it."
  • GeorgeUK
    GeorgeUK Posts: 7,737 Forumite
    I'll PM Pudsey this link incase he was just browsing.
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?p=11570893#post11570893

    Plenty of template letters on that thread.
    After falling off the gambling wagon (twice): £33,600 (24,000+ 9,600) - Original CC Debt: £7,885.91

    Dad Gift 6k ¦ Savings & Inv Tst: £2,500
    Loan 10k: £0 ¦ Dad 5.5k: £2,270 ¦ LTSB: £0 ¦ RBS: £0 ¦ Virgin £0 ¦ Egg £0

    Total Owed: £2,270 (+6k) 11/08/2011
  • evenasus
    evenasus Posts: 11,866 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    POSSETTE wrote: »
    well i say done.

    well your showing yourself up to be very uneducated..someone tried to help you come across better by saying "i did this " even better would be i studied this..!!! glad im not the only one who gets peeved at this sort of thing..who is it with the signature "i bid" not "i bidded" ? that makes me laugh..


    Call me pedantic ;) :rolleyes: but...

    It's 'Well you're' as in you are - not your is as in yours.
  • Cazza
    Cazza Posts: 1,165 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Children under 18, can own property, they could be left it in a will for example.
    I have just passed (yay) my law class today and we got told this when we done contract law.


    In English law (not sure about Scotland) you cannot own land or property under the age of 18, it has to be held in trust.
  • POSSETTE wrote: »
    well your showing yourself up

    It's "you're" not "your". People in glass houses, and all that.

    Getting back to the point, I agree that if the kid has had the benefit of the goods/services, he should pay for them. If I was the parent I would pay it off and get said kid to pay me back over time.

    Edit: Just read this:
    He didn't receive any goods, apparently he was trading virtual furniture from the website habbo hotel with other kids online. My guess is someone has paid him for something through paypal, he has then spent the money buying furniture from someone else, then someone has put in a claim which paypal have deducted from his account.

    The virtual furniture is indeed a good/service.
    My Debt Free Diary I owe:
    July 16 £19700 Nov 16 £18002
    Aug 16 £19519 Dec 16 £17708
    Sep 16 £18780 Jan 17 £17082
    Oct 16 £17873
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