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Weekly Flylady Thread 17th November 2008

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  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,504 Forumite
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    Holly - bit late but I'm here...
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • OrkneyStar
    OrkneyStar Posts: 7,025 Forumite
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    Thrilling Thursday - Bathroom(s) & Study/2nd living room
    Level One
    none
    Level Two
    none
    Level Three
    [strike]Clean the loo/bath/shower/sink/tiles[/strike]
    Extras
    [strike]Write me a list of 5 good things about yourself!![/strike] (I am creative, I am organised, I am good with numbers, I cook HM food for DS and DH, I phone my mum at least twice a week as all good daughters should!- is this ok folks?).
    Also from my own list
    [strike]Open upstairs windows[/strike]
    [strike]Air bed/bedding[/strike]
    * Make the muffin/cakey things that fell off yesterdays list!
    [strike]WM x 1[/strike] (maybe another load later when nappies needing done!)
    * Hang up x 1
    [strike]Put away dry stuff[/strike]
    * Meal plan for coming week
    [strike] Check finances[/strike][strike]
    Check emails [/strike]
    wipe computer desk

    My M.A.C.A.W challenge this week is.............is to do back exercises every day:
    M (no time- bad girl!) T (bad bad bad, must do better) W did them! :D:D T F S S
    Morning all, todays list. Back is still sore, and leg now too (that sometimes happens after doing exercises). Managed everything on my yesterday list, other than cooking the muffin/cakes, as was too tired. Hosp appt went ok, even managed to let them stick a camera up my nose and down my throat :eek: :eek: :eek: (without screaming lol).
    Sorry I have not read all the posts (there are lots and lots :o- no excuse I know) but hope all are well and if not, then hugs!
    x
    PS Sorry if I seem quick with my list, but have spent so long thinking ' she/he is better at this/that', when I became a Chrisitian I finally realised we all have different gifts and hopes and dreams. I can now happily say this is my talents, these are my 'lackings', not in a boastful way, just in a simple straightforward way!
    Ermutigung wirkt immer besser als Verurteilung.
    Encouragement always works better than judgement.

  • FrankieM
    FrankieM Posts: 2,454 Forumite
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    I've made a start and not a bad one. Just having a cuppa...

    Thrilling Thursday - Bathroom(s)
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Clear floors of junk and clutter[/STRIKE]

    Level Two
    Vacuum floors
    [STRIKE]Clear a hotspot[/STRIKE]
    Wash the windows/[STRIKE]glass/mirrors[/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Clean the loo/bath/shower/sink/tiles[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Wash the shower curtain/bathmats if needed[/STRIKE]
    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]Get all those empties out![/STRIKE]
    2. Get up to date on phone calls!! And make any necessary appointments.. dentist/vet/dr etc.. do it now!!
    3. Write me a list of 5 good things about yourself!!
    My List:

    Walk dog
    Deposit chq
    School shoes
    Football socks
    Meter readings
    [STRIKE]Reply to friend's emai[/STRIKE]l
    Ring friend
    Write to Mum and Dad.
  • Gryfon
    Gryfon Posts: 1,304 Forumite
    I think whoever can't write a list of five things...you're being far too hard on yourself! :rolleyes2 I'm sure you're all good mothers/wives/sisters/daughters and I'm sure you all have things that you are good at. I'm sure that in your own way you're nice most of the time, I know there are times when I'm not that nice but on the whole I'm pretty good!

    So I think it's time to stop putting yourselves down and remind yourselves that you are good people really :D I just don't believe you don't have 5 good things about you, it's just not possible unless you're really evil! And then if you were really evil I don't think you'd be on here!

    Ok lecture over :rotfl:
    Fluttering about an inch off the ground, I may fly properly one day and soar in the clouds!

    SPC2 #571 - trying to get as much as possible
  • OK, have done a HHI, so have had to sit down and rest for the past hour or so to get over the shock... :rotfl:

    About to attack the fridge and then a cupboard so Tuesdays list is out of the way...

    See you in a bit... :)
    LBM April 2013 - £29,000.00
    Vanquis CC's PAID - Debenhams SC PAID - A+L OD PAID - Asda CC £783.75
    Barclaycard CC £1400.78 - BoS CC PAID - Freemans Cat PAID
    F/D Loan & CC £1458.96 - Santander Loan PAID - Mum Loan PAID
    RBS OD PAID - F/D OD £1026.52
    Weekly Grocery Challenge - £95.00 budget / spend £-
  • Justamum
    Justamum Posts: 4,727 Forumite
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    Gryfon wrote: »
    I think whoever can't write a list of five things...you're being far too hard on yourself! :rolleyes2 I'm sure you're all good mothers/wives/sisters/daughters and I'm sure you all have things that you are good at. I'm sure that in your own way you're nice most of the time, I know there are times when I'm not that nice but on the whole I'm pretty good!

    So I think it's time to stop putting yourselves down and remind yourselves that you are good people really :D I just don't believe you don't have 5 good things about you, it's just not possible unless you're really evil! And then if you were really evil I don't think you'd be on here!

    Ok lecture over :rotfl:

    A few years ago I went for kinetic something or other (where your muscles are "asked" questions :confused: Something along those lines) and I was given a list of "affirmations" which I had to stick up all over the place and repeat to myself. It was impossible for me. It's hard to explain how. I do suffer from an inferiority complex though :o
  • OrkneyStar
    OrkneyStar Posts: 7,025 Forumite
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    Those struggling to find things about themselves, are any of these true to you ?
    1. you can sing
    2. you are musical
    3. you can sew or knit
    4. you are a good listener
    5. you encourage people
    6. you are a good organiser
    7. you are dealing with your debts/you are good with money
    8. you make people smile
    9. you have lost weight
    10. you have overcome illness
    11. you are laid back
    12. your children are wonderful human beings, largely due to you
    13. you are generous
    14. you know when to quit and when to fight.
    15. you can cook or bake brilliantly.
    16. you give love to everyone you know.
    Need I go on.....
    xxxxx
    Ermutigung wirkt immer besser als Verurteilung.
    Encouragement always works better than judgement.

  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    Hi

    I've changed my mind again about going shopping:rolleyes: i am going to go now as i'll feel even less inclined to do it tomorrow after toddlers.

    In my HHC i

    Made my bed
    Collected laundry
    Wm / td / fold x 1
    Washed up & S & S worktops
    Wrote shopping list
    Got bag ready

    Tuesday Trouble - kitchen and dining room
    Level Two
    Wipe the tables and replace the cloth if necessary
    Wash and open the windows
    Kitchen one done
    Deweb and defluff these rooms
    Level three
    Scrub down the dining chairs..

    Wednesday wrecking - kiddies rooms/spare rooms/neglected rooms!!
    Level One

    Find the floor.. if you can't do it all just do some!
    Level Two
    Vacuum said piece of floor
    Wash the windows
    [STRIKE]Strip and wash the bedding
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Fill a binbag of rubbish and a binbag for charity shop.. only 37 sleeps before the fat guy comes and we need space!.. assuming we've been good!!
    Wipe any sticky grots and dust away
    Collect all the dirty laundry into the basket
    Extras
    1. Sort through one cupboard.
    2. Wipe down all the paintwork
    3. Drag all the junk you stuffed under the bed doing level one out, and put it all away properly!
    4. Make an appointment for your christmas hair cut.. and make sure you keep it!! This is your treat and you deserve it.. can't have you looking all scruffy for the big man himself can we? You might scare the rein-diators
    Extras
    Insurance form
    Sort, list & wrap rest of presents
    5 items ebay
    Quote
    Bank tods money
    Bins [STRIKE]out/[/STRIKE] in

    Update spending spreadsheet


    Thrilling Thursday - Bathroom(s) & Study/2nd living room
    Level One

    Clear floors of junk and clutter
    Level Two
    Vacuum floors
    Clear a hotspot
    Wash the windows/glass/mirrors
    Level Three
    Clean the loo/bath/shower/sink/tiles
    Wipe the keyboard/mouse/phone etc
    Wash the shower curtain/bathmats if needed
    Extras
    1. Get all those empties out!
    2. Get up to date on phone calls!! And make any necessary appointments.. dentist/vet/dr etc.. do it now!!
    3. Write me a list of 5 good things about yourself!!
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,504 Forumite
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    Bathroom done all bar the floor -it needs mopping so I will mop the kitchen floor first then do the bathroom - same water - but only one way round to do it...
    However in order to mop kitchen floor I want THAT room in some semblance of order to off I go...

    BTW have hoovered and dusted landing and stairs thoroughly too..and have defragged (again). Hall was hoovered yesterday by my supermum who did my lounge too. So just PC desk, pictures, barometer and shelves to dust etc.

    Looking good in Valliland!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • FrankieM
    FrankieM Posts: 2,454 Forumite
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    Thank you OrkneyStar...it can be so difficult to see the good in ourselves.
    Hopefully your list has helped others and not just me....

    Justamum...maybe its not being able to say good things about yourself rather than not seeing any good things.
    I think we are generally led to believe that its not good to say good things about yourself. Its somehow big headed..but its really bad for you to speak negative stuff over yourself. If nothing else we should be truthful about who we are and has already been said everyone has something good about them!
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