*Weekend Chat thread 16th Nov**

LouiseJ

No

spud30 wrote: »

That's right hun. He's great at twisting the argument, and then giving me the silent treatment.

I usually end up apologising, even though I'm not in the wrong because he knows I cant stand the atmosphere in the house

He's currently being 'the perfect father' reading with DS and I'm sat here on my own. No-one has said a word to me in 2 hours :mad:

(((((HUGS))))) Spud, my OH is king of twisting an argument too. I wouldnt apologise and just carry on as normal as though you have no idea what all the fuss is about, make him feel stupid for still going on about the argument.

Buffythedebtslayer

Yes

I 'd go out Spud, what an absolute manipulative sod!

git!

skint_spice

No

awww spud, that's rubbish. (((hugs)))

spud30

Yes

LouiseJ wrote: »

(((((HUGS))))) Spud, my OH is king of twisting an argument too. I wouldnt apologise and just carry on as normal as though you have no idea what all the fuss is about, make him feel stupid for still going on about the argument.

He doesnt go on, thats the problem.

He just stays silent for days on end, and when he finally does start talking, it's too late to discuss the original argument, because several days have passed.

Bloody men :mad:

spud30

Yes

He'll be going to bed soon because he's working tonight, so I cant really go out and leave the kids :rolleyes:

Buffythedebtslayer

Yes

days on end how the hell can he do that.

Admittedly I could talk for England but in your own home, why be like that?

and with your wife? I mean whats the point?

Sorry Spud, I have just had my fill of irritating childish people, I am sure your OH is NOT like this all the time. I honestly don't think its fair tho, that you are the "bad guy" when you are not in the wrong!

do not apologise.

LouiseJ

No

spud30 wrote: »

He doesnt go on, thats the problem.

He just stays silent for days on end, and when he finally does start talking, it's too late to discuss the original argument, because several days have passed.

Bloody men :mad:

He doesnt speak for days :eek: I am sorry but that is really not on!!!!!:mad:

We have always had a rule that we never go to bed without resolving an argument just incase one of us dies in our sleep, its a bit of a strange and macabre reason but it does make us stick to the rule.................just in case:o

halight

Yes

Morning all,
Well its yet another wet day today.
Im not going to do a lot today. just have a rest do some reading and speed somtime with the twins:j :j

I was going to roast a chicken for dinner today but im now going to do somthing diffrent. iv put it in the slow cooker with the rest of the bottle of wine from last night (red) some garlic and some mixed herbs.
Iv never done this before so i dont know how it will turn out But ill let you all know how it was tonight;)

I joined lightspeed this morning so theres some more survays for me to do:T

So thats lightspeed and onepoll and yougov im a member of now all thanks to this website:j :T
Im not to sure about yougov iv not been sent any servays and i cheaked my account with them and there is nothing there. But its only been a couple of weeks so ther is still time. I find onepoll great you dont get paied much but thay do seed you a few a week so it mounts up:T

Anyway i hope that you all have a great day,
ill let you all know how the chicken goes later,
Enjoy yourselfs:beer:

LouiseJ

No

spud30 wrote: »

He'll be going to bed soon because he's working tonight, so I cant really go out and leave the kids :rolleyes:

Well I would go up to bed with him, put on some sexy underwear, get him all hot and bothered and then point out that you dont have sex with people who arent speaking to you;)

Buffythedebtslayer

Yes

spud30 wrote: »

He'll be going to bed soon because he's working tonight, so I cant really go out and leave the kids :rolleyes:

OH KNICKERS!

then go with what Lou said. what would happen if you behaved as tho nothing had happened? I mean surely he doesn't ignore you?

I know it sounds a bit bonkers, and i don't have kids but I would have thought that having a teenager it would be really important to have your ground rules sorted? cos she will more then likely start to push at boundaries and play sides. Its not fair that you have to be the tough one who says no and then he swans in all yes to everything.

:mad: