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asked for salary proof after being accepted for loan
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Your hypothetical situation of 'belief' in a plan of action is exactly what my brother does every few years. He has put money into various schemes, borrowed and his own, and has never yet had a winner. Biggest shambles was a plan to buy high quality suits in Thailand and sell to order. 4 grand on three trips to Thailand and he discovers others are already doing it.
Never borrow money by lying or even exagerating.
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Xbigman wrote:Your hypothetical situation of 'belief' in a plan of action is exactly what my brother does every few years. He has put money into various schemes, borrowed and his own, and has never yet had a winner. Biggest shambles was a plan to buy high quality suits in Thailand and sell to order. 4 grand on three trips to Thailand and he discovers others are already doing it.
Never borrow money by lying or even exagerating.
Regards
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i would congratulate your brother for having the courage to take a risk!
no guts no glory!
most winners/wealthy people have bent rules/lied/exaggerated to get ahead at some point-
being pedantic about following society's rules is a habit of someone who isnt desperate to improve his position-
therefore, a 'refinement' created by the elite!
when british society was trying to get ahead 400 yrs ago, rules werent respected in the way they are today-
a society acquires refinement and politeness only after the need to survive has been extinguished!stop britain from dumbing down, help make it great again!0 -
Can I ask you to only state facts, not feelings in this thread please.Happy chappy0
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tomstickland wrote:Can I ask you to only state facts, not feelings in this thread please.
more 'tom'foolery from someone displaying immaturity by citing pop artists as 'inspiration' :rotfl:
being a 'stick'ler for rules is a mug's game
ps the purpose of this thread was destroyed by those who chose to attack rather than learn!
pps im now as low as youstop britain from dumbing down, help make it great again!0 -
dosser wrote:i would congratulate your brother for having the courage to take a risk!
no guts no glory!
most winners/wealthy people have bent rules/lied/exaggerated to get ahead at some point-
being pedantic about following society's rules is a habit of someone who isnt desperate to improve his position-
therefore, a 'refinement' created by the elite!
when british society was trying to get ahead 400 yrs ago, rules werent respected in the way they are today-
a society acquires refinement and politeness only after the need to survive has been extinguished!
being pedantic about following rules in this situation = not committing fraud (a criminal offence)
I think you summed it all up in one worddosser wrote:desperate
I get the impression (in this hypothetical situation) you are looking for someone who won't try (hypothetically) to persuade you not to commit fraud to ease your (hypothetical) conscience.0 -
Dosser.....don't bite off more than you can chew. If you are having any sort of trouble getting the funding that you want, then there has to be a reason. I would imagine (if imaginings are permitted in this thread) that it is because if any lenders that you approach knew your real income then they would consider that you could not afford what you want. They are not stupid....they know how to balance risk and reward.
I would say to you to put whatever idea this is that you have to one side and think of another idea. Don't get obsessed about it. Whatever your situation is, I feel sure that there would be other options available to you. You are being so vague, though, that it makes it difficult to know what other options to suggest. :cool::snow_grin"Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow........":snow_grin0 -
more 'tom'foolery from someone displaying immaturity by citing pop artists as 'inspiration'
Thanks for taking my stupid post seriously.
Anyway, you've come along to ask how to obtain a loan without any proof of income, then you've states that noone ever got anywhere by following the rules, then you complain that people aren't helping you.Happy chappy0 -
ceegee wrote:I would imagine (if imaginings are permitted in this thread) ...
post is too short, so I'm posting more rubbish ...Warning ..... I'm a peri-menopausal axe-wielding maniac0 -
your original heading was " asked for salary proof after being accepted for a loan". I have therefore assumed that you have applied for a loan, been accepted and then asked for proof of income. Why don't you want to sent proof of income? Can it be because you have lied on the form and inflated your income? Why don't you come clean and say what you have done. Nobody goes to this trouble to gain information and educate themselves in case it's needed for the future.
Can we now have a truce, please?Wombling £457.410 -
Catch_A_Fire wrote:being pedantic about following rules in this situation = not committing fraud (a criminal offence)
I think you summed it all up in one word
I get the impression (in this hypothetical situation) you are looking for someone who won't try (hypothetically) to persuade you not to commit fraud to ease your (hypothetical) conscience.
trying to work out what my intentions are, when you know little about me, is dangerous, especially when you use inflammatory words like 'fraud' !
i think it's a bad idea to comment on someone's situation, without asking for the facts, first-
the fact is, ive given scant info about myself-
guessing the reason{primarily based on your own experiences} is flawed as we are not all the same!
if you really interested in being constructive{rather than having a dig}
try asking questions before you make conclusions!
noone has shown this inclination, so far-stop britain from dumbing down, help make it great again!0
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