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Big Day Tomorrow

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  • Sunk
    Sunk Posts: 423 Forumite
    Do I say trifle?...I mean an apple, us BR's don't have trifle.:D
    BR 08/05/2008
    ED 29/10/2008
  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    tonight will be the best nights sleep you EVER have!

    well deserved smooth ride for you glad all went well

    (wouldnt worry about BRO/BRU sounds like you did everything by the book..besides "if" and its doubtfull you did end up with one its no big deal you'd still be discharged after 12mnths just have the odd one or two restrictions...certainly NO jail term
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • Queen, hun, try not to worry, they don't send you to prison if you get a BRO, unless you've done something really illegal;)! You and OH were just trying to make ends meet, like we all do! The OR sees this type of thing all the time. Just be honest, I'm sure it'll be fine. CBx;)
  • Queen
    Queen Posts: 788 Forumite
    Thats ashame thought I get rid of the OH for 12 months just visit once a week, only joking I have been really stressed and when I'm stressed I shout and I mean shout I don't know how he didn't punch me today, because if he had spoke to me the way I spoke to him I would have knocked him out, bless him that's what loved one's are for :rotfl:
  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    Queen wrote: »
    Thats ashame thought I get rid of the OH for 12 months just visit once a week, only joking I have been really stressed and when I'm stressed I shout and I mean shout I don't know how he didn't punch me today, because if he had spoke to me the way I spoke to him I would have knocked him out, bless him that's what loved one's are for :rotfl:

    least you could have dun was baked a cake with a file or 3 in for him!


    Ahh the joys of debt....we've all been there & thankfully most relationships come out well (or like me didnt) life will change now for both of you & you see it'll be for the better
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • Queen
    Queen Posts: 788 Forumite
    I do hope so we have enough stress with his illness without anything else but we have been through worse and manged to come out the other end I always think that if you have your health then you have wealth but sometimes doesn't seem like that:T
  • skylight
    skylight Posts: 10,720 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Home Insurance Hacker!
    How has everything been today Queen????
  • Queen
    Queen Posts: 788 Forumite
    Hi good especially with the rate cut mortgage has been reduced by £248 I think I will not have an IPA as there was no surplus before but then I did not included anything in the budget for holidays, entertainment, xmas or birthdays as budget was really tight and could not show a -figure if we have not allowed enough for things or we can include any of the above will the OR tell us say for instance we have allowed £68 for clothes for 4, I have to wear a suit for work will they say if we can have more, OR called today just to ask a few questions, appt 18th over the phone for us both, she thinks the car may be exempt took details and will le us know on the 18th
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