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**Daily chat Thread*23rd Oct 08

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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    Hugs P :grouphug: and anyone else that needs one.

    I had a bit of an emotional chat to hubby last night - he wont get the message that it's over either, keeps making me hurt him over and over again.

    I can't tell him everything will be okay, because it wont. :(

    I don't want to give him false hope, but I hate kicking him when he's down. Just feel like crap really.
    ding dong

    same here:cool:
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    oh !!!!!!. just wrote long post and then i got lost. ARGH.

    Anyhow, suffice to say, I have had a form of 'redundancy' from work today. When we re-do the kitchen the new bosch appliances will look lovely. ;)

    Big hugs to all my sad, hurting friends. Wish I was closer to help more and to give hugs and mop up tears. xxxx
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    :rotfl: :rotfl: not bad for a redundancy package, bunny:rotfl: :rotfl:

    Can i add my two pence worth. I work with a chap whose wife has just left him - for the second time in a month. He is now going through the grieving process again!

    I know it must hurt Snags but you are doing the right thing, it is sometimes cruel to be kind... I have to admit when I split up from my first husband we went for counselling, he went once and i carried on...It did help to put things into perspective and helped me move on with some form of sanity.:o (I think!)
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    I completely agree Sammy-I think Snags is doing the right thing. (And Jinky and IA)

    Wait til you see my new shiny things Sammy! Lovely!
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Bunnyinthelights wrote: »
    Wait til you see my new shiny things Sammy! Lovely!

    I am soooooo jealous:D
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I am very jealous.. but I can't talk.. I spent £65 on boots off ebay yesterday... *hides*
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • cat4772
    cat4772 Posts: 2,467 Forumite
    Ooh computer repair shop have said my computer is ready for collection. Guess it will take me about 3 hours to reload all the programmes (sky broadband, MSN, Professional Office etc). Then remembering my passwords will be a fun experience!!! Thank god I uploaded a load of photos to Facebook; got to ask them if there's any way of downloading them back to my computer. I've borrowed half a dozen CD-RWs so I should be able to reload the files onto my computer and use the disks as a backup until I can get an external hard disk. I'm also going to see if I can set up the old computer as a back-up device. It might not work on the internet but as a stand-alone pc it's fairly good!

    Cat.x
    DFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debt
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  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    IA, I spent £90 today at next for an outfit for my interview tomorrow:o
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Bunnyinthelights wrote: »
    IA, I spent £90 today at next for an outfit for my interview tomorrow:o
    and I'm guessing at normal next prices all you got was socks and pants! lol
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Sammy, I sent you a PM hun.
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
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