First one to clear 15k gets a paper hat

CAFCGirl

just to add to the woe, just found out we're off to Rome in June as well!
YAY!

no payments to report, been really lax with my money lately and need to get my food spending under control, new job is causing increasing in my food bill!

dizzybee

Hi everyone well not much to report manged to sell one item through free paper today so £30 towards the challenge.have £75 in pay pal account but will leave it till tomorrow has waiting on a few buyers to pay.just need 20p on one poll then i can cash out the £40, will update sig tomorrow has pay day tomorrow.

tirlittan

another £12.45 to student loan savings added. Feel really depressed about everything atm. On Monday I've been a year with my bf who still hasn't said I love you, I have. Really fed up with my flatmates and having to share a house when I'm 30. BF definitely not ready for us to share. Uni mate I was supposed to share come april has lost her job and might move back to devon. Work not very interesting and certainly doens't pay enough. The debts. Just feeling really down and de-motivated. Would love to go and see my family, but of course I can't afford it. Well, at least this weekend I'm busy in a tournament, so don't have time to think about most of these things for most of the time.

clearmydebts

tirlittan wrote: »

another £12.45 to student loan savings added. Feel really depressed about everything atm. On Monday I've been a year with my bf who still hasn't said I love you, I have. Really fed up with my flatmates and having to share a house when I'm 30. BF definitely not ready for us to share. Uni mate I was supposed to share come april has lost her job and might move back to devon. Work not very interesting and certainly doens't pay enough. The debts. Just feeling really down and de-motivated. Would love to go and see my family, but of course I can't afford it. Well, at least this weekend I'm busy in a tournament, so don't have time to think about most of these things for most of the time.

Hiya Tirlittan,

Sorry your having such a rubbish time at the moment. How has your boyfriend reacted when you say 'I love you'. Does he need more time to think about his feelings or maybe he gets shy?

It very much sounds to me like you are at a bit of a crossroads in your life where you are evaluating everything. At the moment yor home and work life is bugging you which is not good, we can usually cope when one is not right but if the 3 aren't working then it is hard.

I think it would be perfectly acceptable to sit down with yor OH and discuss the future. You have been together for a year and it has to come up at some stage. Don't be afraid to tell him about the work and huose situation as well. Maybe you could do some trouble-shooting together, as a team!

tirlittan

We've had 'discussion's before. He treats me so well and you could fool yourself into believing that he does love you,but is just afraid to say it.But I don't know...Will have to talk to him again about it all, but need to leave it for awhile as his gran just died. I do talk to him a lot about house situation (one of my flatmates is his workmate,that's how we met) and work. He's understanding, but not much he can do about that. But yes,it's definitely come to the point where something needs to give. Thanks for replying. I'm off now for the weekend, so hopefully everyone has a good one!

clearmydebts

tirlittan wrote: »

We've had 'discussion's before. He treats me so well and you could fool yourself into believing that he does love you,but is just afraid to say it.But I don't know...Will have to talk to him again about it all, but need to leave it for awhile as his gran just died. I do talk to him a lot about house situation (one of my flatmates is his workmate,that's how we met) and work. He's understanding, but not much he can do about that. But yes,it's definitely come to the point where something needs to give. Thanks for replying. I'm off now for the weekend, so hopefully everyone has a good one!

You have a good one too. Don't worry too much, things have a way of working themselves out

savingholmes

HI Tirl - hope you manage to work things out.

Didn't get last Monday's job but am through to second stage on one I went to on Wednesday so wich me luck with that one - it is not an ideal location but really good money - would make a real difference in the paper hat challenge LOL!

poorandindenial

Oooh, life on the thread!!!!

saving - bah abut the Monday one and fingers crossed for you for the second interview - knock 'em dead.

tirl - sorry you are feeling pants, hope the conversation goes Ok

everyone else - :wave:

CAFCGirl

Hey Tirl hun
Hope you have a great weekend, sometimes with DH I have to remember he's not a verbal person but I find how he "tells" me he loves me in his actions.... perhaps your partner is more like that, plus with a lot of changes in his life recently maybe he's struggling with a lot of emotions....? Just a thought, but he loves you, how could he not?! You're so ruddy fantastic!

Saving - lots of super mad good luck with interview, the hard part is done, the foots in the door, go get em tiger!

Hope everyone has a fab weekend. I've been really lax with the challenge lately and Im a bit annoyed with myself so I need to get it back on track, so Im off to pay some money off my I.F CC to start the day with a positive action!

CAFCGirl

ok paid 28.68 off my i.f CC and also just done a review on dooyoo. definitely need to get back into the swing of dooyoo!