Trying For a Baby II

Evansangel

Exactly! I dont feel resentment towards anyone else though which is weird. Its just her.

So many little things about her being pregnant annoy me. for example she's the sort of person who would make her child be something, even if it doesn't want to be.

One of her facebook status's was "Brody-Mia (babys name) is going to be the cutest punk baby ever"

And tbh i feel you shouldn't force people to be something they dont want to be

MadMac_2

Evansangel wrote: »

Ok, i want your opinions on this.

This girl i know got pregnant just before i did last time when i had the mc.

She isn't the sort of person who would want kids, and when i mentioned kids before to her she said it was stupid and kids ruin your life.

And then i had the mc, but she was fine and i didn't think it was fair. Not that i wanted to wish a mc upon her but i wasn't fair that i had one and she's allwed a healthy baby. Now she's found out she's havng a girl and when i found out via facebook i pretty much cried in OH's arms.

Am i weird?

x

If you're weird, then so am I - and lots of others on here would say the same!

Hell, we're allowed to be upset. We know we'd make great mums and would just want our child to be happy, whatever they wanted to be. Life just seems a b!tch at times like that :mad:

becs

Agree with Madmac, EA if you're weird then loads of us are. There are 5 colleagues at work pg at the moment and I'm fine with it but a friend of dh has just had a baby and when she was pg I felt desperately upset and angry because it was unplanned and she did nothing but moan about the baby and pregnancy the whole way through. However now she has had the baby I'm fine again but obviously now there isn't the negativity on her behalf towards the baby.

Evansangel

Oh cool
Thanks. I still am not happy about her, but at least i know im not weird x

MadMac_2

Ooh, MSE Ian says they're pulling some of the new features to cure teething problems! Hope that means I will be able to quick post again - so I'm trying!

Edit: yup, working again!

Don't ever feel weird when things like that upset you. I've been like it for years and OH is quite used to me crying all over him!

Evansangel

So is my OH, everytime i look down he asks if im ok, so i say "yeah, im just thinking"

And he'll give me a hug and say "is it about babies again?"

and then i'll repeat the same thing (rant) to him and he'll listen and hug me more and say that we'll be pregnant soon.

What does annoy me though is when people (other than OH for some reason) say "you just obbess to much, relax and you'll get pregnant"

My mum said it to me and i had a go at her lol. x

Evansangel

Madmac, where does it say about pulling some of the features?

x

becs

second that one EA! "relax and it will happen" my number one pet hate, although my mum turning round and saying "do you not want children now?" because I'm not rushing to go for further fertility tests!:mad:

scotsgirl_3

Evansangel wrote: »

So is my OH, everytime i look down he asks if im ok, so i say "yeah, im just thinking"

And he'll give me a hug and say "is it about babies again?"

and then i'll repeat the same thing (rant) to him and he'll listen and hug me more and say that we'll be pregnant soon.

What does annoy me though is when people (other than OH for some reason) say "you just obbess to much, relax and you'll get pregnant"

My mum said it to me and i had a go at her lol. x

It' not always that easy is it!!

Only my best friend knows we are trying (in real life lol) cos everyone would have something to say about it - we got married when I was quite young (20) and Oh is older than me. I'm only 22 just now and you can just imagine the chorus of disapproval/why not wait/bla bla bla!!

Evansangel

becs wrote: »

second that one EA! "relax and it will happen" my number one pet hate, although my mum turning round and saying "do you not want children now?" because I'm not rushing to go for further fertility tests!:mad:

My mum seems to think that as she's had 5 kids then she's right and knows the best :mad:

Oh and my "obbsessing" is me doing OV tests to see when im ovulating...

Sometimes i just want to punch her lol. I wouldn't as i dont like hitting people and she's my mum, but the things she says wind me up so much lol.

Anyway, on my first month of ttc, i did relax and just had s3x whenever, and im still here.. not pregnant... :rolleyes:

:rotfl: x