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The Diary of a reformed Ostrich! (no more head in the sand!)

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  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    petrafyde wrote: »
    Good Morning All,

    I've decided to tackle the bank first. Still having a serious problem with getting on the phone to them because I know they've been trying to get hold of me.

    My overdraft is £1600 and I go over it every month because of bank charges. It seems as though it would be easier if I moved my 'bills/dds' across to another account I have, which has no overdraft facility and ignore the main account until the charges stop and I'm in a position to start paying back? Does that sound a reasonable thing to do? I'm definitely not having a moment of clarity because I'm questioning every decision I make in case it's the wrong one!

    Have decided to empty the pennies jar and pay whatever is there (not much!) into the bank in the hope it will help the situation some.

    I've also cancelled DD's which were unnecessary, magazine subscriptions and the like. The only things I've battled with are weight watchers, my 3yr olds Dora magazine and hubby's sky. Gonna have to talk him around I think hehe.

    hello there, i notice you said you have cancelled the DDs. Hve you also
    told the company that you want to cancel. So many people cancel DDs and think that that is that. Not so. You must contact the company to cancel.
    good luck
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    petrafyde wrote: »
    Good Morning All,

    I've decided to tackle the bank first. Still having a serious problem with getting on the phone to them because I know they've been trying to get hold of me.

    My overdraft is £1600 and I go over it every month because of bank charges. It seems as though it would be easier if I moved my 'bills/dds' across to another account I have, which has no overdraft facility and ignore the main account until the charges stop and I'm in a position to start paying back? Does that sound a reasonable thing to do? I'm definitely not having a moment of clarity because I'm questioning every decision I make in case it's the wrong one!

    Have decided to empty the pennies jar and pay whatever is there (not much!) into the bank in the hope it will help the situation some.

    I've also cancelled DD's which were unnecessary, magazine subscriptions and the like. The only things I've battled with are weight watchers, my 3yr olds Dora magazine and hubby's sky. Gonna have to talk him around I think hehe.

    hello there, i notice you said you have cancelled the DDs. Hve you also
    told the company that you want to cancel. So many people cancel DDs and think that that is that. Not so. You must contact the company to cancel.
    good luck
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • petrafyde
    petrafyde Posts: 354 Forumite
    Hi Annie, yes I've informed all but the insurance company. Thanks for bringing that up! :)
    No chocolate, cosmetics or clothes to be bought before xmas day 14! ~ NPower eBay target £541.67
  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    Hey, just thought I'd pop in and say well done on your progress, you'll soon be much much better off at this rate, stay positive!

    All I would say is on the 450 quids worth of groceries...you can easily save 300 quid there! Get on the old-style boards, they know their stuff!
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
  • petrafyde
    petrafyde Posts: 354 Forumite
    Hey :)

    I have been browsing there, cheers! I already make a lot of stuff from scratch -- just got used to using expensive meats etc to make meals with! Totally frivolous spending it was! Trying hard now to reduce shopping bill but that won't show until next month as we only needed certain items to top up this month.
    No chocolate, cosmetics or clothes to be bought before xmas day 14! ~ NPower eBay target £541.67
  • petrafyde
    petrafyde Posts: 354 Forumite
    Good morning everyone,

    Well eBay is paying off already thank goodness - only £20 made so far but it's a start! That money will go to NPower. Aiming for £450 in six weeks, a percentage of anything over that will have to go toward christmas, its gonna be a tight one!

    I'm feeling really tired this morning. Going to ring Npower and face up to them though so hopefully I'll be better this afternoon :)

    Shopping is due to arrive this afternoon, so I'm going to clear out the freezer and see if there's not something I can whip up for tonights tea there.

    Middle daughter has had packed lunch all of this week. We've come to the arrangement she can have school dinner on Fridays so its not too much of a change (as MrsTine mentioned earlier this week) both of the older ones enjoy the school dinner on a Friday, so I felt it would be wrong to take it away immediately.

    I've been very good and opened all of the post I have left (shredded/threw away the rest a while ago). The majority of the debt letters are from a credit card I had last year. You know, the stupid thing about it is I stopped paying it because the bank bounced the DD after charges one month and it spiralled from there. I'm going to ring them too, although they've passed it onto a dcc so I reckon they'll just say I have to ring them. Thats the scarer for me to be honest, we once had a visit from a certain dcc/bailiff and he really, really scared me with how he was. He refused to leave the house until he had money and wanted the keys to my car.

    Anyway, enough of the sombre notes..here's hoping we can sort something out with NPower! They've a scheme I've found a number for. If it's as good as it looks I'll be posting it up for all to see.
    No chocolate, cosmetics or clothes to be bought before xmas day 14! ~ NPower eBay target £541.67
  • Naomim
    Naomim Posts: 3,218 Forumite
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    Well done PF, it seems like you're really on a roll. :j

    Naomi x
    Credit Cards NOV 2019 £33,220.42 Sept 2025 £16,515.00 Here's my diary: A Ditherer's Diary Again
  • petrafyde
    petrafyde Posts: 354 Forumite
    Hi Naomim,

    Thanks a lot. Bit frustrated at the mo cos I can't get hold of Npower (again!). Trying to clear in my mind what I need to do before I submit a revised SOA. Hopefully that'll make things a bit clearer.
    No chocolate, cosmetics or clothes to be bought before xmas day 14! ~ NPower eBay target £541.67
  • scaredy_cat
    scaredy_cat Posts: 7,758 Forumite
    petrafyde wrote: »
    Thats the scarer for me to be honest, we once had a visit from a certain dcc/bailiff and he really, really scared me with how he was. He refused to leave the house until he had money and wanted the keys to my car.

    Until i started browsing though this site i didn't realise that you didn't have to let bailiffs enter your house.

    www.bailiffadviceonline.co.uk
    Cats don't have owners - they have staff!! :D:p
    DFW Long Hauler Supporter No 150


  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
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    Right the bailiff people - unless they have gone through getting a CCJ and you fail to stick to the CCJ and they then get a court order thingy they CANNOT remove your property. If ever anyone threatens you with that again let us know and we'll give you all the information you need to get shot of them :)
    DFW Nerd #025
    DFW no more! Officially debt free 2017 - now joining the MFW's! :)

    My DFW Diary - blah- mildly funny stuff about my journey
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