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Early rise for me this morning:rolleyes:

I went to bed at 9 last night cos i couldn't keep my eyes open and woke at................2.30am:eek: :eek: :eek:

So i have been awake since then,pottering about on here.

Going swimming with DD today:T

and maybe booking in for my tattoo.:D

Had another one of *those* conversations last night:rolleyes: but apart from that great.

Hope all peeps and cats are fine:A

Can all us shy people be all be cheerier today?:rotfl:
See we are all the same:T which is why we should all come to the meets and not be afraid.:D

My biggest problem is not knowing what to say to people:o
I sit there thinking "all my small talk is boring" so i just don't say anything unless someone speaks to me first or offers me alcohol:D
:heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
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  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Morning Jinky

    Funny isn't it you don't come across as shy.. Very quick witted and funny and kind maybe!

    Glad you started the thread today, I have been watching Wire in the blood on ITV.comn on my laptop in bed - how sad am I. OH home tonight thought:rotfl: and talking about not knowing what to say, sometimes when i start the thread I think, I am so boring all i do is get up and go to work, not much else to say really:rotfl:

    Anyway I'm off to work today and thats about it:rotfl:
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Jinky - was one of 'those' converstions with your OH by any chance. If it is, I get lots of them from my OH, I have slowly mastered the art of 'tuning him out' - I learnt it from him..........maybe you should try it :rotfl:
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
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    Morning ladies (and any gents who appear later)

    Thought I'd try an early post this morning ...

    I've got another day of law and ethics so even if your day involves watching paint dry it will be more interesting than mine :p

    Lou, hope your cat is comfortable. Hugs to you. We had dogs and cats when I was a kid and losing one was always devastating.

    Right. Time for a shower. Hope to catch up a bit more later.

    Luc xxx
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  • lauradora
    lauradora Posts: 1,371 Forumite
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    morning everyone!

    At home all day today going to get some flying done and will be hanging around!

    Have a good day everyone xxx
    On a mission
  • Good moring all

    Well what a busy day today - pick up my new camera and have my first scan!!!

    Anyways as it is friday here is a special treat for the ladies, Gentleman yours will be next wednesday!!










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  • Morning everyone :grouphug:

    Jinky what are you getting for a tattoo? Where? :)

    I am hoping for a new start today with a positive mental attitude towards things. I explained that I have few friends because I dropped them all when they couldn't stop living like sixth formers, but the only thing that's stopped me making new friends is me.

    A girl at work had a baby 6 weeks before me and isn't it silly that we've only seen each other twice since. We send the odd email or text saying things like 'oh we must get together sometime' 'let's catch up and see how the babies are growing' etc etc but we never do. My paranoid and lonely side says she is just being polite and the reason we haven't met is because she doesn't really want to, but what if she is feeling a bit isolated too? So I am going to pester her until she gives in! If she doesn't want to meet because she doesn't like me she'll have to tell me it, I ain't taking no hints! :p:D

    If it is a dry day I am going to take Elliot to the park, he is big enough to go on the swings (even he does just sit there looking unimpressed :rotfl: ) and I will chat to at least one person and if they ignore me or blank me then it's just because they don't have a positive mental attitude and It Will Not Get Me Down!
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Morning..............Its Friday:j

    Puddy tat seems a bit brighter this morning:D think that the injections she had yesterday has picked her up a bit.

    The weekend is upon us and I have absolutely nothing planned which to be honest suits me nicely, I will be having a Friday night party on here even if I am by myself:beer: ........plan to totally chill and laze around for the whole of Saturday and Sunday.

    thanks for the well wishes for Tigger the cat xxxxx

    Jinks - tell OH to change the record:rolleyes:
    Luc - the joys of law and ethics.....oooo what fun;)
    Sammy - you are not boring...........you is cool:cool:

    :j HAPPY FRIDAY EVERYONE:j
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Morning everyone :grouphug:

    Jinky what are you getting for a tattoo? Where? :)

    I am hoping for a new start today with a positive mental attitude towards things. I explained that I have few friends because I dropped them all when they couldn't stop living like sixth formers, but the only thing that's stopped me making new friends is me.

    A girl at work had a baby 6 weeks before me and isn't it silly that we've only seen each other twice since. We send the odd email or text saying things like 'oh we must get together sometime' 'let's catch up and see how the babies are growing' etc etc but we never do. My paranoid and lonely side says she is just being polite and the reason we haven't met is because she doesn't really want to, but what if she is feeling a bit isolated too? So I am going to pester her until she gives in! If she doesn't want to meet because she doesn't like me she'll have to tell me it, I ain't taking no hints! :p:D

    If it is a dry day I am going to take Elliot to the park, he is big enough to go on the swings (even he does just sit there looking unimpressed :rotfl: ) and I will chat to at least one person and if they ignore me or blank me then it's just because they don't have a positive mental attitude and It Will Not Get Me Down!


    :T :T Thats the spirit DD :T

    I am the queen of paranoia:rolleyes: , i always jump to the conclusion that people dont like me before considering other factors first.
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Saff :T

    That piccy woke me up:D
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • Crikey SF! :eek: Lou, you can have him, I'll have the bed :D to myself :D

    Glad your kitty seems better today, can she have treats like tuna or cheese? I spoil mine whenever something has been wrong :o (which is a lot :mad: they get into trouble :mad: )

    Yes I tend to think someone doesn't like me without a single reason but maybe I give off a vibe :confused: I do try though and that's when it hurts the most, when you have actually made an effort. But I do believe that most people are good people and so maybe I just need to persevere - even if most people are good, some are going to be !!!!!!.
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