hates school

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thank for all your replys very helpful will try a different aproach on monday c how i go .a other problem 2 day the teacher had a word with 2day 1 of the little girls had lost 1 of them toys that go in there shoe and they were all looking 4 it . dont know how they discovered it but my daughter had it in her bag .same thing to day happened little girl had lost her head band the teacher asked them all had they seen it they all sed no she sed the only reason she checked my daughters bag was cos she kept saying she hasnt got it and it was there in her bag the teacher told me she sed to my girl that wasnt very nice was it she was a bit tearful wen she came out have had a chat to her so hopefully that will b it

zero_2

yes there is other schools but not sure if she wud b any different in a dif school she is in a welsh school at the mo

*jobags*

Are you able to go in maybe once every 1-2 weeks for a morning or afternoon to help out?
You will then be able to observe her in the classroom and how she gets on.
The other kids will get to know you and also have a reference point for talking to/taking to your child

It's horrible I know.

My son currently hates school (he's in year 1 but he did nursery and reception in the school) and I hate leaving him there. I would really like to keep him at home

Bless her cotton socks - I hate school more now than when I went and the holidays seem much shorter than they were in my day

Jo

zero_2

i dont think the school wud b keen on me doing that .c how we get on this week mite get better hopefully

Sami_Bee

has your daughter explained anything about the items in her bag?
Just wondering as I was a bit of a mentalist at primary school (my mum always says it was because I was immature for my age but I wonder if I'm secretly a nutter going undiscovered LOL)
I used to get very jealous when someone had something nice (like a cool toy that lives in your shoe) or was getting attention for something like a trophy and so would steal said thing and hide it!
maybe she is feeling a similar way, is she a bit of a loner? maybe she just wants the other kids to like her as much as the ones with the "cool stuff"

or maybe someone planted the stuff in her bag and have been picking on her

or is she just not used to being shouted at? it could be quite scary if mummy and daddy always talk super nanny stylee then suddenly a big bad teacher shouts at them

PS. I have grown up alot in the last 20yrs and now pretty "normal":p