Am I being unreasonable or is she?

6angels

Personally I would have put my foot down about her being a bm, but its too late for that now. Again, personally, I would let her bring whoever she wanted - at my wedding I hardly know the best man and his girlfriend - and in the evening I wont know half of the people!
But its your day so if you dont want what she is suggesting then put your foot down and stick to it. Hope it works out ok for you. x

Lemon_Tree

to increase the sense of deja vu (also posted on the september thread) you are not being unreasonable i know the decision has been made now, but you were right in saying that she can't bring just anyone, it's your wedding and you should be able to chose who comes especially when you are so restricted on numbers.
Enjoy your day, i think your MIL's getting away lightly being allowed in the toilet, i'm thinking of dunking mine in the pond.

claireac

At least it's sorted......, it's a minor irritation. Ignore it.

Deep breath, relax and enjoy the build up to your big day!! :j

C xx