Who really needs to know?

niccinotts

we didnt tell anyone when my husband went Br in april and as far as im aware noone knows. If they do they arent saying anything!!

MammaCas

I only told my sister and as far as I know, she's the only one that 'knows'.

xx

Dez-Titute

I'm Sorry but 13 posts in 6 hours and only 2 thank yous
It beggars belief,

Is this a sign that the advice/response given is worthless

mysterio_2

Dez-Titute wrote: »

I'm Sorry but 13 posts in 6 hours and only 2 thank yous
It beggars belief,

Is this a sign that the advice/response given is worthless

its not all about the thank you's......besides they come from people who are grateful.... in the short time i've been i've read some of your previous posts & to be honest half dont need thanks & the rest make no sense at all

maxmycardagain

Dez-Titute wrote: »

I'm Sorry but 13 posts in 6 hours and only 2 thank yous
It beggars belief,

Is this a sign that the advice/response given is worthless

no, it shows most think its been answered and they have nothing to add...

ascot64

Dez-Titute wrote: »

I'm Sorry but 13 posts in 6 hours and only 2 thank yous
It beggars belief,

Is this a sign that the advice/response given is worthless

Sorry Dez been busy at work but I have thanked you now.

maxmycardagain

who NEEDS to know?

no-one really, any "body" (official or trading) wont look in the local rags will they, they check the IS site, the London Gazette site and do credit checks if REALLY interested.

BTW, you are ALWAYS gonna be on the LG site, forever, even after death, how that isnt punitive i really dont know.....

enjoy!

milpool

At first it was only my close family and my best mate that knew. Once I'd got over the worst and began to come to terms with what had happened I wasn't afraid to let others know. I didn't walk about with a sandwich board or anything like that but I figured that going BR wasn't a crime and, although not necessarily proud of it, I'm not ashamed of it anymore either.
If people want to judge me, then that's up to them. But in all honesty I don't care what other people think, the most important people in my life know the score and have been totally supportive.

fatou256

In my 3rd month that i am BR and no one know i havemnt told anyone and i won't.

it was my own and personal decision to go down this way adn i think it should stay the same.

maxmycardagain

fatou256 wrote: »

In my 3rd month that i am BR and no one know i havemnt told anyone and i won't.

it was my own and personal decision to go down this way adn i think it should stay the same.

Bang on chap! absolutely no need for joe public (who wont be lending you anything, or you owe anything to) to know, it should be as protected as your personal finances are by the DPA, but it isnt.

credit givers should have trade sites to rely on, not your local papers, which they dont use anyway!

its the modern equivalent of the stocks