What a mess - advice please.

searching_me

you sound so much like me honestly... my mother has had her purse "stolen" so many time i think everyone in london has one of her purses :rotfl: ... right the way round it is you open a bank account for only her bill and you make her put money in them to cover them and check that every week that she puts the money in for them and then wants left is hers to show you can trust her and shes not allowed to ask for money and if she trys make sure everyones is updated on this (and yes that can mean embrassing her but its the only way) everyone says NO!... and remember this is your house and you aint a kid so she lives by your rules and sticks to this or shes out and mean it if she sees any cracks and you both dont stay firm on this she'll know you well give up... i know it sounds mean but honest you have to be strick xxx