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*Weekend Chat Thread**17th Aug 2008*

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  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    LouiseJ wrote: »
    That sounds tough Red:grouphug: it sounds like he has alot of "baggage"?

    Baggage, yep that's a good name for psychotic woman who uses the kids as a weapon.. sigh.. it is hard for him, I just have limits on being 'understanding' all the time.

    Linda - I might just do that (go out with someone else that is, I think I'd be dangerous at bingo in my current mood - "yeah, have all my money!").. it's really not a good combination, someone unreliable (him) and someone who hates having plans changed (me).
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  • System
    System Posts: 178,371 Community Admin
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    Surely the hawaiian crunch would make it all 'spikey'
    ...Linda xx
    And I would feel that with my one and only Nobby, which has been giving me some Gip this week after the hassle it has had. Ive walking atound the garden on my !!!, just to sooth it :D
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  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Baggage, yep that's a good name for psychotic woman who uses the kids as a weapon.. sigh.. it is hard for him, I just have limits on being 'understanding' all the time.

    Linda - I might just do that (go out with someone else that is, I think I'd be dangerous at bingo in my current mood - "yeah, have all my money!").. it's really not a good combination, someone unreliable (him) and someone who hates having plans changed (me).


    It does sound really difficult for the both of you and it sounds like he is being torn.....just so long as you are put first some of the time as you say, you can only be let down so much.
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    lennymfo wrote: »
    And I would feel that with my one and only Nobby, which has been giving me some Gip this week after the hassle it has had. Ive walking atound the garden on my !!!, just to sooth it :D


    Oh yipee, a game of Blankety Blank. You be Lilly Savage and I will be one of the glamourous guests.

    Walking around on my ermmmm Bum?
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    Great! I now have visions of lenny sliding round the garden like a dog trying to unblock it's anal glands!
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    Linda - I might just do that (go out with someone else that is, I think I'd be dangerous at bingo in my current mood - "yeah, have all my money!").. it's really not a good combination, someone unreliable (him) and someone who hates having plans changed (me).

    Go for it squirrel!
    go and enjoy yourself.
    don't knock the bingo, I won £1,000 last month.
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • OliveOyl_2
    OliveOyl_2 Posts: 3,506 Forumite
    LouiseJ wrote: »
    I aint eating one of your craps Lenny:eek: :rotfl: , yer certaily know how to woo a woman:D

    I wait in anticipation to see if the cuplrit is the Hawaiian crunch.



    :eek: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    Oh dear
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    I know Olive, I'm about to blow chunks all over my keyboard!
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Great! I now have visions of lenny sliding round the garden like a dog trying to unblock it's anal glands!
    ...Linda xx


    I dont think his need unblocking Linda, more like he needs a cork in it:D
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • System
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    Go for it Red. Tell me do you and Linda catch the free bus to the Bingo? :D
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